Since forever, I always be the passive one
during intercourse. I don't like being on
top and when I do, I can't keep the
movement that long (I'm not fat for your
information) and I don't get any pleasure
at all. I wonder if this normal, since I
assume many women DO like it on top!
I'm bored with the same position every
time (missionary) but that's the only
position where I feel pleasure from.. is
there anything wrong with me?
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xbostonx
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Joined: 16 Mar 2008 Posts: 96 Location: Boston, MA
Posted: 04-18-08 12:30pm
no i don't think that there is anything
wrong with you. I think you should try
other positions though. Ever try doggy
style? or if you don't like laying down on
top of him you could try having your
boyfriend sit on the couch and you go on
top that way? Being fat has nothing to do
with it. I'm chunky myself and i have a
great sex life. hopefully this helps
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Georgia59
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Posted: 04-18-08 14:44pm
It's not weird or anything, different
strokes for different folks. There
probably is an anatomical reason that you
like it better though, maybe there's more
pressure in a certain area when he's on
top. You could try to figure out what that
is and recreate the same pressure in other
positions (for example, you on top, but
leaning forward so you're laying on him or
both of you sitting with your legs wrapped
around eachother)
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SweetKaran
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Joined: 17 Apr 2008 Posts: 4
Posted: 04-21-08 12:16pm
Hi everyone!
Thanks for your reply. Im glad that I'm
not weird or anything. I was wondering
maybe it's because I always do that same
position (almost all the time) since
forever... my husband is the only one I've
been with and I was wondering that the
inside of my vagina might used to that
same position over and over again and
that's why I get no pleasure from other
positions.
We tried doggy now and then but I don't
like it that much
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Rosie H
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Posted: 04-21-08 12:42pm
you could try spooning. its more romantic
I guess than doggie style. Its where you
are laying down on your side and he is
laying next to you on his side. He then
enters you from behind. But you can hold
hands and kiss still. Its very cozy and it
feels really good. Its not uncomfortable
like doggy style either. Maybe you could
try that?
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Dreadmuse
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Joined: 21 Apr 2008 Posts: 13 Location: St. Petersburg, fl usa
Posted: 04-22-08 08:15am
Try something completely different... Look
up some information on Shabari (Japanese
rope bondage). In my shows and private
life I use a very simple body harness, it
does not restrict movement and keeps your
arms and legs free... The advantage of the
harness are many.
1. multiple grab locations to make
yourself, or your partner more
manuverable.
2. anchor points (if you are into
bondage)
3. and this is the one that might help
you... Happy knots...
What is a happy knot?
in the tying of the harness, the rope is
brought up in knots, between the legs. If
properly positioned, the happy knot will
rest close enough to the clitoris to
stimulate, but not directly on top of
(which would irritate). Every move you
make will give you the external
stimulation that you are probably only
gettig from yoru current missionary
position...
If you want more information on such
techniques, let me know...
however... if you have never tried this
sort of thing before... dont do it without
discussing it with others and having done
a great deal of research. People tend to
take things too far and people get hurt
(or worse) because basic safety is not
used.
The Dreadful Muse
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SweetKaran
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Joined: 17 Apr 2008 Posts: 4
Posted: 04-23-08 15:23pm
Thanks for your info about this bondage
thingy. But it sounds so complicated I
don't even want to try it.. lol. We barely
have quality time to spend with each
other, let alone tieing each other in
knots before sex.... haha.. if you have
children you might understand.
People who do those things seems to have a
lot time in their hands.. which I don't
have.. ;p
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Georgia59
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Posted: 04-23-08 17:23pm
lol
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Dreadmuse
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Joined: 21 Apr 2008 Posts: 13 Location: St. Petersburg, fl usa
Posted: 04-25-08 08:14am
SweetKaran
wrote:
Thanks for your info about
this bondage thingy. But it sounds so
complicated I don't even want to try it..
lol. We barely have quality time to spend
with each other, let alone tieing each
other in knots before sex.... haha.. if
you have children you might understand.
People who do those things seems to have a
lot time in their hands.. which I don't
have.. ;p
LOL... I understand completely... I have 4
children...
I often felt the same way... the body
harness is very easy. easily covered by a
robe (it doesn't bind your arms or legs)
and can be done as part of foreplay...
It is hard to get the time... that I do
know... best of luck to you... if you do
have any questions... drop me a message.