hi my mom is all up for like birth
control, a iuv,or something like that.but
honestly im not i feeel like if its god
well i will get pregant and if i dont want
a baby i should use protection.i have
tried to tell my mom but theres no other
way to get to her..any advice...
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Carifairy
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Posted: 07-19-08 10:51am
Yes, I have advice.
IF you have sex you will get pregnant!
Unless you use birth control, you will get
pregnant MANY times.
I'm being nitpicky: you were stating very
SERIOUS facts, but no real advice.
WHY WOULD YOU NOT BE PROTECTED? Those
statements made by Carifairy...VERY REAL.
You will get pregnant. You're young...you
need to figure YOURSELF out before you
bring someone else into the world. If you
are not protected and you get pregnant,
you are doing yourself a disservice (not
to mention doing the CHILD a disservice).
Why wouldn't you want to be protected now,
and choose the best possible time to have
a child? Let me tell you honey...in high
school is not the best time possible.
What does your boyfriend say? Does he
support this too?
It just seems to me you are being selfish
when you say this. You aren't considering
the lives that are extremely effected by
the simple decision to NOT put on a
rubber/take a pill/get a shot/etc.
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AyaMiyaki
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Posted: 07-19-08 21:31pm
If you're not okay with birth control, you
really need to abstain from sex. If it was
truly God's will for you to get pregnant,
he'd find a way to get you pregnant.
Remember how Mary conceived Jesus?
You need to protect yourself. An IUD will
protect you from pregnancy for years! This
is time you can spend on your education,
getting into a good college, establishing
yourself in the world. You can put money
aside, move out on your own, build your
credit, buy a house, settle down... and
when the time's right for you to have a
baby, you'll be in the best position
possible to give your baby everything he
or she deserves. Can you honestly say you
can do that right now?
If you got pregnant right now, it wouldn't
be because it was God's will. It would be
because you were too stubborn to listen
about birth control and you put YOURSELF
in that situation. I think deep down you
know that. You need to stop and think
about what you truly want, and then think
about what your baby DESERVES. A good
mother doesn't put her wants above her
child's needs. A good mother doesn't
choose a poor future for her child on
purpose.
One little piece of plastic can not only
protect you from pregnancy and give you a
great shot at a bright future, but it'll
ensure that you won't bring a child into
this world before you're prepared for one.
It's the most loving thing you can do for
your future baby - give him/her a strong,
confident mother who's actually able to
take care of him/her without relying on
others to help her.
