Yeah no matter what happens you will have to get a paternity test to prove to him that he is the dad even though you know he is. Some people won't believe anything unless there is a test and proof and in writing.
Haha, I know what you mean. Guys usually aren't thinking about a possible pregnancy when they have sex. But when I'm in that situation, that's all I can think about
It's too bad he's treating you like this. I don't believe in abortion either. Being a single mother would be really hard too, but then again, you might just love your baby enough to do that. If it doesn't work out, there's alway adoption. As for the child wondering who its father is, it's not really a big deal. There are a lot of children who have the same problem...it's not unchartered waters.
I hope all this gets resolved for you. Babies are really precious thing and it's terrible that the miracle of life has to be marred by selfish people like your BF. After the baby is born tho, there is nothing like the joy you feel when you look at your baby smiling up at you even when you are the saddest.