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Q: 3 months pregnant and VERY worried!!
asked by: msxpoison on April 19th, 2008
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Crying or Very sad I know who the father is but he has'nt spoke to me in about 3 months it seems like he is basicly avoiding me never answering my calls. My best friend called and he automaticly answered it's very suspicous and upseting to me. They got it in his head to call me but he left a message saying that if i am it is'nt his. He was the last person i had sex with so i know for shure he is the father i really don't know what to do. I don't think he would be a good father or even cares any advice please?
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ilovemyfishies81
replied on April 19th, 2008
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You can better alone then you can with someone who does not want anything to do ith you. get a paternity test and child support
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mominashoe
replied on April 19th, 2008
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It would really depend on when you ovulated, not when you last had sex, so I'm sorry to say that he could be right that he isn't the father. If he doesn't want to have anything to do with you, don't worry about it. If he was man enough, he would be there for you whether it was his child or not.

Be sure to get a paternity test to determine who is the father after the baby is born. No matter who the father is, he will have to pay child support.
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msxpoison
replied on April 21st, 2008
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Well i talked to him for a few minutes and he hung up on me after i said i was getting my ultrasound soon and that if he wants proof i'm pregnant i will send him the pics. I honestly dont know what to think anymore i don't believe in abortion but i also would hate to have a child and be a single mother with my child wondering who it's father is you know.
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msxpoison
replied on April 21st, 2008
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And yes we had sex quite a few times he never asked if i was ovulating or not mainly i think he was tihnking with his "ahem" and not his head and now he just dosent want to deal with it. Plus we hav'nt talked in almost 3 months he's the only person i've slept with since we have been dating so i know he's the dad.
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mominashoe
replied on April 21st, 2008
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Yeah no matter what happens you will have to get a paternity test to prove to him that he is the dad even though you know he is. Some people won't believe anything unless there is a test and proof and in writing.

Haha, I know what you mean. Guys usually aren't thinking about a possible pregnancy when they have sex. But when I'm in that situation, that's all I can think about Razz

It's too bad he's treating you like this. I don't believe in abortion either. Being a single mother would be really hard too, but then again, you might just love your baby enough to do that. If it doesn't work out, there's alway adoption. As for the child wondering who its father is, it's not really a big deal. There are a lot of children who have the same problem...it's not unchartered waters.

I hope all this gets resolved for you. Babies are really precious thing and it's terrible that the miracle of life has to be marred by selfish people like your BF. After the baby is born tho, there is nothing like the joy you feel when you look at your baby smiling up at you even when you are the saddest.
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