3 months pregnant and VERY worried!! Posted: 04-19-08 02:27am
I know
who the father is but he has'nt spoke to
me in about 3 months it seems like he is
basicly avoiding me never answering my
calls. My best friend called and he
automaticly answered it's very suspicous
and upseting to me. They got it in his
head to call me but he left a message
saying that if i am it is'nt his. He was
the last person i had sex with so i know
for shure he is the father i really don't
know what to do. I don't think he would be
a good father or even cares any advice
please?
You can better alone then you can with
someone who does not want anything to do
ith you. get a paternity test and child
support
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mominashoe
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Posted: 04-19-08 13:39pm
It would really depend on when you
ovulated, not when you last had sex, so
I'm sorry to say that he could be right
that he isn't the father. If he doesn't
want to have anything to do with you,
don't worry about it. If he was man
enough, he would be there for you whether
it was his child or not.
Be sure to get a paternity test to
determine who is the father after the baby
is born. No matter who the father is, he
will have to pay child support.
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msxpoison
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Posted: 04-21-08 23:02pm
Well i talked to him for a few minutes and
he hung up on me after i said i was
getting my ultrasound soon and that if he
wants proof i'm pregnant i will send him
the pics. I honestly dont know what to
think anymore i don't believe in abortion
but i also would hate to have a child and
be a single mother with my child wondering
who it's father is you know.
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msxpoison
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Posted: 04-21-08 23:05pm
And yes we had sex quite a few times he
never asked if i was ovulating or not
mainly i think he was tihnking with his
"ahem" and not his head and now he just
dosent want to deal with it. Plus we
hav'nt talked in almost 3 months he's the
only person i've slept with since we have
been dating so i know he's the dad.
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mominashoe
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Posted: 04-21-08 23:46pm
Yeah no matter what happens you will have
to get a paternity test to prove to him
that he is the dad even though you know he
is. Some people won't believe anything
unless there is a test and proof and in
writing.
Haha, I know what you mean. Guys usually
aren't thinking about a possible pregnancy
when they have sex. But when I'm in that
situation, that's all I can think about
It's too bad he's treating you like this.
I don't believe in abortion either. Being
a single mother would be really hard too,
but then again, you might just love your
baby enough to do that. If it doesn't
work out, there's alway adoption. As for
the child wondering who its father is,
it's not really a big deal. There are a
lot of children who have the same
problem...it's not unchartered waters.
I hope all this gets resolved for you.
Babies are really precious thing and it's
terrible that the miracle of life has to
be marred by selfish people like your BF.
After the baby is born tho, there is
nothing like the joy you feel when you
look at your baby smiling up at you even
when you are the saddest.
I know
who the father is but he has'nt spoke to
me in about 3 months it seems like he is
basicly avoiding me never answering my
calls. My best friend called and he
automaticly answered it's very suspicous
and upseting to me. They got it in his
head to call me but he left a message
saying that if i am it is'nt his. He was
the last person i had sex with so i know
for shure he is the father i really don't
know what to do. I don't think he would be
a good father or even cares any advice
please?
