worrieddauzzi - I think saw19842002 has given you the pity that you have set out for, so now it's time for you to move on from it.
I am sure you have gotten others upset by your post- that's why there has been only 2 people reply to it.
If you didn't want beliefs from someone on Abortion, then don't include it in your post. It's only fair to expect others to react seeing that Abortion is a high stress topic.
You're in a forum where health topics are discussed, and I am sure that Abortion hits nerves among those that are trying to have children, very highly. If you tell others about it, expect to have feedback...that is why you came here to state it. For feedback.
If you can't take criticism and the truth, then don't post.
saw19842002 was just trying to help, seeing that you asked for it, apparently.
So just take what was given and move on - like you have.