me and my bf have been going out for over
a year, and lived together for about 11
monthes, me him and my mom, only cuz me
and him didnt have enough money to afford
our own place.....my mom is absulutly
crazy, a pill head and a junkie, just
being honest. tonight 8-28 my bf and her
got into an argument cuz she was all
screwed up on pills and she started
beating him up so he defended himself, so
she calld the cops and he went home,,i
dont kno for how long, but right now i
feel SOO empty, lost and lonely all i been
doing is crying. please someone help
me.............advice please!!!!!!!!!
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PestimisticAngel
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Posted: 08-29-08 18:21pm
He went home I thought you said that he
lived with you and your mom your bofriend
should have just restrained her but not
hit her back your mom neeeds to try to
quit the pills and go to consuling for
being a junkie she can get help and be
better but she has to want it and keep
working at it may be you could go where
your boyfriend
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help me plaese
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Posted: 09-03-08 02:10am
1st was the fight resonable? maybe she had
an issue with him when he started living
with u guys, he problally made he upset a
few times without you knowing, at least
your mom was nice enough to take him in.
2ndly, he should've walked awayinstead of
defending himself.
you should talk things out with you mom
how it bothers you very much how she's on
pill and u want her to live long maybe
more than a 100 yrs old, your shold try to
open up with her without getting into any
arguements, plus maybe you can help her
out to get over the pills.
you shouldn't worry so much about your b/f
if he really likes u then he'll call u if
not then move on you mom should be your #1
priority. n besides were u guys planning
to get married anyway? if not then y live
together? it just spoiles the romatic, u
have a whole lot of yrs to come.
don't cry be strong, you family needs u
more, i know that it bothers u a lot but
if u guys don't get back together don't
worry about it too much there's so many
fish in the sea, n 3yrs from now u will
kick urself in the as.s or luagh about
this moment.
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Sukki
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Posted: 09-08-08 23:30pm
was he freaked out coz ur mum hit him?
maybe she was just unable to control
herself..maybe shes really stressed and
the pill thing could u bring her to a doc
or someting?
