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my partner doesnt find me atractive anymore! Posted: 10-04-08 09:40am
wev recently had alot of problems like him
having an affair! he doesnt seem to fancy
me anymore and hardly sleeps with me
making excuses like he feels ill, he realy
upset me by sayin "wat do you expect, look
at you uv got a huge bump!" i just cried
for ages and he didnt even appologise!
my hormones are everywhere and iv found
myself wanting sex every single day and
with me not getting it iv found myself
using toys which makes me feel asthough im
disrespecting my baby in a way.
what should i do?
is what im doing wrong towards my baby?
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rooted
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Posted: 10-06-08 04:44am
Not at all. Completely natural. And it helps relax
you, which also helps relax the baby. IF
your partner cannot find you attractive
(and many men do like pregnant women!),
you should be able to satisfy yourself
without guilt. I say go for it!
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Jules
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Posted: 10-20-08 09:58am
I agree with rooted. You're not
disrespecting your baby in any way at all
- s/he doesn't have a clue what you're
doing and you're doing it to your body not
his/hers. Having a good orgasm will chill
you out and therefore your baby will feel
nice too.
As for your partner, some men find having
sex with an obviously pregnant lady a
little weird. Don't take it personally.
He does sound like he's got no tact
though. Bet his body is just perfect hey?
Yeah, thought not. Maybe he should try
growing a brand new human being and then
he can pass judgement.
And it helps relax
you, which also helps relax the baby. IF
your partner cannot find you attractive
(and many men do like pregnant women!),
you should be able to satisfy yourself
without guilt. I say go for it!