never had a girlfriend and severe deppresion Posted: 09-13-08 00:31am
hello,im new here and basically im very
overwieght and unattractive.im not shy but
girls are not interested in me.im 17 years
old never had a girlfriend,never been
flirted with and i have never been asked
out.my height is average but i weigh 215
pounds i ware extra large and i ware 36 30
pants.im hideous and i hate it.i do want
some advice but what i really would like
to know is if i am alone are not.im also
kind and i listen to what people have to
say and im willing to do alot for a
girl.so i hope people on this forum are
nice to me.
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Nancy89
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 05 Aug 2008 Posts: 23 Location: Liverpool, England
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Hey Posted: 09-14-08 10:13am
if you are this unhappy with your weight
why dont you try more activities. Just
doing 10 min walk everyday can make a
difference. Anyhow loooks is not
everything to everybody ..
personality,job, success are highly rated
too =D
Anyhow, depression is such a horrible
illness. I have experienced it and it came
to a stage i didnt want to go out anymore.
However, there is light at the end of the
tunnel. Surround yourself with people you
care about and love. you seem nice just
have confidence in the true person you are
and there is somebody out there for you.
Just keep looking ^^.
p.s. it seems we are similar so msg me
anytime x
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worrywart01
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
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Posted: 09-14-08 21:02pm
just get out there...and seriously dont be
depressed about not having a girlfriend..i
had flings in high school but they were
never official boyfriends..i didn't become
involved with my first serious boyfriend
until i was 19...i dont feel like i missed
out on anything...live up your single life
boy! get out there, have some fun and
maybe along the way you'll meet you a
sweet girl! But you cant just sit around
and expect her to just miraculously show
up haha...and as someone else said, if
you're unhappy about your weight(i think
all of us have a few things we'd like to
work on) then get up and do somethin about
it! Go to the gym! talk about meeting
girls..thats the right place! working out
gives you natural endophines as well,
you'll feel better about yourself and
you'll be happier..its really good for
you...just get out there
