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help781
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No sex w/ signs of pregnancy
Posted: 03-10-08 18:30pm
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My boyfriend and I were recently messing
around. Again, NO SEX. His penis was
around my butt, and I'm not sure if any
pre cum got around. He did not ejaculate
at all. We just stopped a little while
after. He recently started worrying about
it, which made me more worried. Then come
to find out my period is now a couple days
late. I've felt sick this morning and
thrown up. i have cravings, aches and I am
really tired.
I really don't know what to do.. Am I just
being worried and it's making myself do
this? I'm scared and worried and I can't
have a child... Please help.
Thank you.
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Posted: 03-10-08 18:34pm
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You are not pregnant. You can take a test
if you think you are. (you aren't though)
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help781
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Posted: 03-10-08 18:57pm
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Then what could be wrong with me if I'm
not?..
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Posted: 03-10-08 19:14pm
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Take a pregnancy test if you think it is
pregnancy. Then you can rule that out for
yourself and maybe your symptoms will go
away.
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help781
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Posted: 03-10-08 19:17pm
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I don't really know how I'd do that
anyways.. I have no way to get anywhere
without telling someone..
But you're sure it's not?
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Posted: 03-10-08 19:18pm
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Where do you get your birth control pills?
Planned parenthood gives free tests.
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help781
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Posted: 03-10-08 19:23pm
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I don't take birth control.. I'm not
planning on having sex either..
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Posted: 03-10-08 19:35pm
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But you nearly did and now you are
afraid... birth control might be a good
idea...
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Posted: 03-10-08 19:39pm
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So you're telling us you can't go to the
corner store for no reason? Tell them you
want to go to Shoppers to get a soda or
something. If you're able to find the time
and place to fool around you can get a
pregnancy test.
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help781
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Posted: 03-10-08 19:43pm
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What do they have at a corner store that I
could get?..
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Posted: 03-10-08 19:52pm
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a pregnancy test.
it would be a good thing to get on birth
control even if your not planning on
having sex, if you didnt even engage in
sex and are worried about being pregnant,
birth control would help so you dont worry
and also regulate your periods too.
its all just to be safe even if your not
thinking or planning on having sex yet.
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help781
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Posted: 03-10-08 19:54pm
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I just don't know how I'm supposed to get
any of that stuff.. I can't tell anyone..
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Posted: 03-10-08 19:57pm
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you could talk to your mom about getting
on birth control and explain its not cuz
you want to have sex, but so your safe and
to regulare your period, and she could
take you to your doctor and they would
perscribe birth control to you, planned
parenthood i think has it, walk in clinics
have brith control too
but talk to your mom tell her your wanting
to be safe and responsible and that you
are not planning on having sex but think
it would be a good thing to get on.
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help781
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Posted: 03-10-08 20:01pm
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Would that help now... Or is it too
late?..
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Posted: 03-10-08 20:04pm
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your not pregnant, he did not finish
inside of you for a pregnancy to occur.
you did not engage in sex at all so there
is no chance of you being pregnant.
how old are you? just wondering.
he only rubbed against your bum you said,
thats not sex hun.
take a test and see for yourself, but i
really do not think your pregnant.
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help781
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Posted: 03-10-08 20:08pm
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Sorry I'm just really nervous.. I have so
many symptoms..
And I'm only 15.. =/
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Posted: 03-10-08 20:14pm
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sometimes when people THINK their
pregnant, they start thinking it so much
their body starts giving them symptoms,
missed period nausea etc. when there is no
pregnancy at all. They think something so
much that their body believes it too.
Your stressed out about thinking your
pregnant when your not, which is most
likely the reason why your period is late,
cuz stress can have a big impact on your
body messing up your cycle, take a test to
see for yourself, and dont worry. your
giving yourself the symptoms. your not
pregnant hun.
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help781
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Posted: 03-10-08 20:28pm
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I pray to God you're right.. I just can't
stop worrying now.. It's stuck in my
head.. Hopefully my boyfriend will help me
with reassurance.. Thank you for your help
though.. If I have the chance for a test I
will do it. Thank you again.
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Posted: 03-10-08 20:44pm
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your welcome, take a test tomorrow with
the first morning urine
it will give you peace of mind and
reassurance that your not.
a test will settle all this out.
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help781
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Posted: 03-10-08 23:19pm
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Yeah maybe.. What does it mean if my
ovaries are swollen?
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