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Q: No sex w/ signs of pregnancy

asked by: help781 on March 10th, 2008

New User

My boyfriend and I were recently messing around. Again, NO SEX. His penis was around my butt, and I'm not sure if any pre cum got around. He did not ejaculate at all. We just stopped a little while after. He recently started worrying about it, which made me more worried. Then come to find out my period is now a couple days late. I've felt sick this morning and thrown up. i have cravings, aches and I am really tired.
I really don't know what to do.. Am I just being worried and it's making myself do this? I'm scared and worried and I can't have a child... Please help.
Thank you.

Replies(23)

Mabel

replied on March 10th, 2008

Moderator

You are not pregnant. You can take a test if you think you are. (you aren't though)

help781

replied on March 10th, 2008

New User

Then what could be wrong with me if I'm not?..

Mabel

replied on March 10th, 2008

Moderator

Take a pregnancy test if you think it is pregnancy. Then you can rule that out for yourself and maybe your symptoms will go away.

help781

replied on March 10th, 2008

New User

I don't really know how I'd do that anyways.. I have no way to get anywhere without telling someone..
But you're sure it's not?

Mabel

replied on March 10th, 2008

Moderator

Where do you get your birth control pills? Planned parenthood gives free tests.

help781

replied on March 10th, 2008

New User

I don't take birth control.. I'm not planning on having sex either..

Mabel

replied on March 10th, 2008

Moderator

But you nearly did and now you are afraid... birth control might be a good idea...

Reptar

replied on March 10th, 2008

Experienced User

So you're telling us you can't go to the corner store for no reason? Tell them you want to go to Shoppers to get a soda or something. If you're able to find the time and place to fool around you can get a pregnancy test.

help781

replied on March 10th, 2008

New User

What do they have at a corner store that I could get?..

krystineM

replied on March 10th, 2008

Extremely eHealthy

a pregnancy test.
it would be a good thing to get on birth control even if your not planning on having sex, if you didnt even engage in sex and are worried about being pregnant, birth control would help so you dont worry and also regulate your periods too.
its all just to be safe even if your not thinking or planning on having sex yet.

help781

replied on March 10th, 2008

New User

I just don't know how I'm supposed to get any of that stuff.. I can't tell anyone..

krystineM

replied on March 10th, 2008

Extremely eHealthy

you could talk to your mom about getting on birth control and explain its not cuz you want to have sex, but so your safe and to regulare your period, and she could take you to your doctor and they would perscribe birth control to you, planned parenthood i think has it, walk in clinics have brith control too
but talk to your mom tell her your wanting to be safe and responsible and that you are not planning on having sex but think it would be a good thing to get on.

help781

replied on March 10th, 2008

New User

Would that help now... Or is it too late?..

krystineM

replied on March 10th, 2008

Extremely eHealthy

your not pregnant, he did not finish inside of you for a pregnancy to occur.
you did not engage in sex at all so there is no chance of you being pregnant.
how old are you? just wondering.
he only rubbed against your bum you said, thats not sex hun.
take a test and see for yourself, but i really do not think your pregnant.

help781

replied on March 10th, 2008

New User

Sorry I'm just really nervous.. I have so many symptoms..
And I'm only 15.. =/

krystineM

replied on March 10th, 2008

Extremely eHealthy

sometimes when people THINK their pregnant, they start thinking it so much their body starts giving them symptoms, missed period nausea etc. when there is no pregnancy at all. They think something so much that their body believes it too.
Your stressed out about thinking your pregnant when your not, which is most likely the reason why your period is late, cuz stress can have a big impact on your body messing up your cycle, take a test to see for yourself, and dont worry. your giving yourself the symptoms. your not pregnant hun.

help781

replied on March 10th, 2008

New User

I pray to God you're right.. I just can't stop worrying now.. It's stuck in my head.. Hopefully my boyfriend will help me with reassurance.. Thank you for your help though.. If I have the chance for a test I will do it. Thank you again.

krystineM

replied on March 10th, 2008

Extremely eHealthy

your welcome, take a test tomorrow with the first morning urine
it will give you peace of mind and reassurance that your not.
a test will settle all this out.

help781

replied on March 10th, 2008

New User

Yeah maybe.. What does it mean if my ovaries are swollen?

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