me and my bf have been going out for over
a year, in the beginning to the middle we
were prettty close, now that we started
living together, all we do is fight..we
been living together about 7 monthes, all
he does is ignore me,...and whenever i go
by him he gets up and walks away, out into
the living room....he makes me feel like i
dont exist to him anymore, its like he has
no emotions towards me anymore like he
used to..and i love him soo much, and it
just makes me feel really bad, hes on the
computer all the time, on the phone
texting all the time,, but he can do all
that stuff, but he cant spend no time with
me.......please help!!!
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worrywart01
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Posted: 09-05-08 18:41pm
moving in with someone is a big
commitment...they say the first year of
marriage is the hardest bc you're getting
used to each other living styles...i've
been dating my boyfriend for over 2 years
now, and he's asked but I think moving in
together is a step after marriage...many
couples relationships do fail if they move
in together before marriage....people need
time to themselves, and when you live
together you're ALWAYS around each
other..the relationship can turn sour
pretty fast...maybe you two should talk
and you should think about moving out...is
there somewhere else you can stay? tell
him you thought moving in together would
help the relationship and you two aren't
as ready as you thought....i think that
would be best for the relationship right
now