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painful sex during pregnancy Posted: 04-01-08 19:18pm
I wasn't sure if I should put this here or
in the womens part, but I figured sence I
want a guys opinion on this I should but
it here.
Okay i have a few questions.
One: If your girlfriend/wife asked for a
threesum would you do it. Why or why not.
Two: My guy is so obsessed with anal sex
(which I WILL NOT do) is that an normal
all/most guy thing? He annoys the P.i.s.s.
outa me with it!
and Three: Im pregnant and my guy and I
still have sex... but somtimes it hurts to
the point of hurting... He gets mad if I
make him stop. He knows when it hurts
because I do cry and she will tell me NOT
to stop him. ( I eventually have to
thought) so my question here is should I
just deal with the pain and let him keep
going or is there somthing wrong with him
and hows he's thinking here?
Thanks, Megan
And sorry if you guys dont want me to post
in here again just let me know.
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MiseEire
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Posted: 04-02-08 22:39pm
It all sounds a bit forceful. There may be
some underlying frustration or perversion.
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preggie meggie
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Posted: 04-04-08 17:37pm
To me, when I think of it al together it
sounds like he's angry at me.
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Lion79
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Posted: 04-07-08 18:19pm
If you want a threesome and you think it's
the right thing to do, then do it. If you
don't, then don't do it. Think about this
carefully, a threesome will probably
seriously affect your relationship,
especially if one of you is unsure.
A lot of guys like anal sex, but you
should never do something you don't want
to do. If he persists, ask how he would
feel if you wanted to do anal ON HIM with
a toy, that makes him think about what
he's asking of you.
And no, he shouldn't keep going if he
knows he's hurting you! It sounds like it
hurts you pretty bad too, if it's making
you cry, and I can't believe he would
actually get mad at you for this. To be
honest it sounds like he's only in it for
himself and doesn't consider how you're
feeling. You need to talk about this with
him and re-evaluate if he has your best
interests at heart (and your baby's). I'm
not saying dump him or anything, you just
need to talk to him about it, and tell him
how YOU are feeling.
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LovelyLeigh
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Posted: 04-07-08 22:09pm
next time tell him to stop
and if he tries not to.
tell him if he doesnt youll cut him
off till after the baby is born..lol./.
i would
and i also agree with lion79
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Rosie H
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Posted: 04-14-08 13:23pm
you asked for my opionion and I would
never got through with a threesome. If I
was single I do not know. But being in a
committed relationship it would never
happen.
As for anal sex. A lot of men like it and
some dont. A lot of women do and a lot
dont. me and my hubby do it sometimes as a
bit of fun and spice. It feels awesome.
Very different than reg sex. Not better
but just as good. But it takes time and
patience to get the muscles stretched. You
cant just shove it in. You will be in lots
of pain.
Now your comment about the painful sex
really upset me. No one man or women
should make the other experience pain if
they do not want to. And it sounds like
you do not. I would throw him off of me
and slap the crap out of my guy if he
pulled some sh*t like that. There is no
reason for him to put you through pain
just for his own satisfaction. That is
sick and just mean. Sit him down and tell
him that you wont take it anymore. If he
doesnt like it then he has hands!!!
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preggie meggie
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Posted: 04-14-08 17:10pm
Lol. I liked hearing what you all said,
Thank you. We have broken up though now.
Wich Im compleatly okay with! Thanks
again!!!
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Rosie H
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Posted: 04-16-08 15:06pm
Glad to hear that your happy with the
break up. He didnt deserve you anyway.
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preggie meggie
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Posted: 04-19-08 14:02pm
Rosie H
wrote:
Glad to hear that your happy
with the break up. He didnt deserve you
anyway.
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