Please only women answer this question, Posted: 05-05-08 16:09pm
Hi ,I am 28 male single.
Please ladies what should i do?
Last week my 25 year old sister called me
crying sayig her fiance cheated on her and
kickeed her out! She asked to come live
with me and if i would come get her.
What could i say? She lived in the next
state so it took me 14 hours to drive
there. Once i got there i felt real sick
and tired,I got into a rough and tumble
with her man and we both ended up spending
a night in the local jail. The next day
escorted by the police i picked up my
sister and loaded as much of her stuff
into myminivan.For the 1st couple hours
all she did was cry,I calmed her buy
saying how much of an ass he was,+ i
bought her a few wine coolers.
I drove till we was half way home then
stopped and rented a cheap but clean
looking motel room with 2 beds.
She went and took a shower as i walked
across the road and grabbed us some
munchies and brew.
THIS PART IS MY PROBLEM
As i walked back iunto the motel room i
was shocked and excited to see a perfectly
beautiful naked woman
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Aunt WeeWee
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Posted: 05-27-08 13:42pm
DUDE!!!! Thats your sister! Rent a porno
dude. God is sooooo gon judge u for this
one. EWWW.....
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worrywart01
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Posted: 05-27-08 15:13pm
why was your sister naked in your
room........and how could you in any way
be turned on by that...if I saw my brother
i would look away so fast and be
completely scarred for life
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antigone
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Posted: 05-27-08 16:11pm
Your sister is a woman and she does have
all that comes with being a woman. I
question why your sister felt it was
appropriate to walk out of the shower
naked in front of you. This is a
boundaries issue. It is inappropriate at
best and leaves some question as to her
intent. Do not act on this. Incest is
illegal and immoral by many standards. You
may want to consider counseling if this
becomes a problem for you.
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Roberta777
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Don't Think Your Sister Posted: 06-03-08 18:10pm
Deliberately walked in front of you to
provoke you into sexual thoughts. She
probably came out of the shower, had a few
wine coolers (which is no excuse to let
down your moral territorities) but after
the breakup probably was beaten up
emotionally with all the drama.
Hey! A beautiful body is a beautiful
body. But, not your own sister Dude!
Gotta be able to go out there and get
somebody for yourself. Not a world of
hurt and grief.
Take care of yourself and thanks for
rescuing your Sis.
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Mikolas
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Posted: 06-10-08 14:36pm
If your initial reaction was simply that
you see a beautiful naked woman, I don't
believe something is wrong with that.
Instincts are instincts, they come first,
then the human morals kicks in. For
instance, I find myself doing this, and
have quite a time watching other men do
this, when checking out a somewhat
revealing lady. I can't seem to stop
myself when I'm not focusing, then I keep
myself in check and turn away and silently
scold myself. Have you ever purposely
tried waiting for a pretty girl to pass
by, to specifically look at the reactions
of other guys automatically check her out?
Pretty amusing, but it can't be helped, it
just comes naturally.
However, if the morals didn't kick in,
then we may have a problem in our hands.
You didn't specify, what your thoughts
were after this initial moment, that may
be key to deciding if its going to be a
problem for you.
On a side note, don't let anybody who
insults you for this on this forum or
anywhere else get to you. It isn't any of
us to judge incest is "wrong". That is a
whole other debate right there, since it
can differ within each society or culture.
I myself personally think it is
disgusting, but that just means I've
fallen into societal standards, not that
I'm right for thinking that way. There are
current existing cultures out there that
still condone incest, so do not judge nor
question a tradition that has been long
existent before before yourselves. Perhaps
she did this intentionally, perhaps not,
based on his story, we know neither.
A beautiful woman is a beautiful woman,
regardless of who she is.
To the people who posted before me, I
believe many of you said things without
further investigating the story, and made
many assumptions.
For instance, I don't believe he ever
stated that his sister walked out naked in
front of him, he only stated that he saw
her naked as he walked back into the room.
Another possible explanation for why she
was out of the room naked in the first
place, is that she left all her clothes
out and thought he wasn't around and
decided to chance running out. Numerous
possibilities could have explained her
actions, he was not specific enough to
suggest that these possibilities couldn't
have occurred.
P.S. In an attempt to make things a little
less tensive, I was going to say if you
can give me her number, but then I didn't
know how you'd respond to that. =P
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