Last night my boyfriend and I decided to
watch some porn together. At first it
sounded like a good idea, but as we looked
for something to watch over the internet I
finally came to terms with how disgusting
everything was. Somewhere there has got to
be porn where people look… normal and
its not just close ups of genitals. Does
anyone know of any (hehe) tasteful porn or
have any other suggestions?
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PenguinsRus
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Posted: 05-20-08 13:46pm
I don't know if it would weird you out or
not, but you could try videotaping the two
of you and watching it together. Can't
get much more natural than that!
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Maddie34
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Posted: 05-20-08 13:51pm
hehe We're getting there.
The problem so far is that we're long
distance at the momment so we have to put
that idea on hold. We thought we'd try
other porn for now but it was not as much
of a turn on as I had originally thought
it would be.
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PenguinsRus
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Posted: 05-20-08 13:54pm
Ohh, okay. How far apart do the two of
you live? Were you planning on watching
to together while on the phone/internet?
Sometimes if you search for ameture porn
they will be less staged. Also, sometimes
you can find porn that
boyfriends/girlfriends make together and
put out so it looks a lot more natural
too. Maybe look into either of those.
If you don't like porn don't force
yourself to watch it/like it though. It
may just not be for you, in which case
there are plenty of other fun things you
guys can do.
Good luck!
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Maddie34
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Posted: 05-20-08 14:07pm
I'm going to keep looking, I'm not going
to force myself into it but in my head
this always seemed like something I'd be
interested in if that makes sense. I'm
pretty sure its something I just need to
find the right stuff for.
Yeah it'd be over the phone/internet.
We're three and a half hours away and
we're just trying to keep things
interesting.
Thanks for the help!
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PenguinsRus
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Posted: 05-20-08 14:10pm
Mike and I used to live 5 hours apart
before we moved in together, so I know how
it can be. Good luck Also, you can
always try webcams too that makes things
more interesting you can buy cheap ones
for less than 20 dollars.
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Maddie34
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Posted: 05-20-08 14:17pm
Five hours, wow, I couldn't imagine. We
hardly see eachother now!
Webcams are something we've been looking
into too. I have one right now but its not
really mine so we're waiting until payday
until we both get one.
Plus I'm staying at a friends place so
I'll be more motivated to get one when I
have my own room and guaranteed privacy.
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worrywart01
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Posted: 05-20-08 14:36pm
I know EXACTLY how you feel about the long
distance thing..my boyfriend and I had
been dating a little over 2 months when I
had to leave for college 4 hours away,
neither of us realized how serious it had
gotten until it was time for me to
leave..it was soooo hard,somehow I managed
to find rides home every 3-4 weeks but in
between was...rough, we kept each other
entertained through interesting internet
chat convos/stories..and I had gotten a
web cam forever ago just never hooked it
up, he didn't have one so finally hooked
mine up and he could see/hear me but i
just had to settle with the IMs haha, it
helped..i guess..he'd send pictures of
himself so i could see him, we made it the
8 months and are still dating, in fact our
2 year is coming up next month! We never
did the porn thing but, we managed to keep
ourselves satisfied i transferred back
home to a college closer so i see him all
the time now...but that 8 months was..both
good and bad i'd say..it was nice bc the 3
week time apart we'd have kept the
relationship "fresh" you know? but..it
sucked at the same time haha..i'm just
glad to be home again!
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Posted: 05-21-08 10:50am
Sinclair Institute puts out some erotica
that is a bit more appealing. Google
search for them and look at their library.
Hope you find one you like. Night trips is
pretty good.
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Maddie34
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Posted: 05-21-08 23:18pm
Thanks antigone,
I googled them. Is this something I'm
going to have to buy? Not that I'm not
interested in dong that, I just wanted to
make sure they didn't have anything online
that I'm just missing. Think you could pm
me a link to something with night trips or
the library? I'm either way tired or
forgot how to correctly use google
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Georgia59
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Posted: 05-22-08 15:31pm
You know, one thing that I've found is
that just watching really sexy movies will
do the trick. It's enough of a story that
I'm interested, and not so much genitals
that I'm turned off- but he likes it as
well.
Other than that, there is some porn that
is created by women (for women) and that's
supposed to be better- but I haven't
actually found any yet.