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Maddie34

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Posted: 05-20-08 11:43am

Last night my boyfriend and I decided to watch some porn together. At first it sounded like a good idea, but as we looked for something to watch over the internet I finally came to terms with how disgusting everything was. Somewhere there has got to be porn where people look… normal and its not just close ups of genitals. Does anyone know of any (hehe) tasteful porn or have any other suggestions?
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Posted: 05-20-08 13:46pm

I don't know if it would weird you out or not, but you could try videotaping the two of you and watching it together. Can't get much more natural than that!
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Posted: 05-20-08 13:51pm

hehe We're getting there.

The problem so far is that we're long distance at the momment so we have to put that idea on hold. We thought we'd try other porn for now but it was not as much of a turn on as I had originally thought it would be.
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Posted: 05-20-08 13:54pm

Ohh, okay. How far apart do the two of you live? Were you planning on watching to together while on the phone/internet?

Sometimes if you search for ameture porn they will be less staged. Also, sometimes you can find porn that boyfriends/girlfriends make together and put out so it looks a lot more natural too. Maybe look into either of those.

If you don't like porn don't force yourself to watch it/like it though. It may just not be for you, in which case there are plenty of other fun things you guys can do.

Good luck!
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Maddie34

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Posted: 05-20-08 14:07pm

I'm going to keep looking, I'm not going to force myself into it but in my head this always seemed like something I'd be interested in if that makes sense. I'm pretty sure its something I just need to find the right stuff for.

Yeah it'd be over the phone/internet. We're three and a half hours away and we're just trying to keep things interesting.

Thanks for the help!
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Posted: 05-20-08 14:10pm

Mike and I used to live 5 hours apart before we moved in together, so I know how it can be. Good luck Smile Also, you can always try webcams too that makes things more interesting you can buy cheap ones for less than 20 dollars.
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Maddie34

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Posted: 05-20-08 14:17pm

Five hours, wow, I couldn't imagine. We hardly see eachother now!
Webcams are something we've been looking into too. I have one right now but its not really mine so we're waiting until payday until we both get one.

Plus I'm staying at a friends place so I'll be more motivated to get one when I have my own room and guaranteed privacy.
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Posted: 05-20-08 14:36pm

I know EXACTLY how you feel about the long distance thing..my boyfriend and I had been dating a little over 2 months when I had to leave for college 4 hours away, neither of us realized how serious it had gotten until it was time for me to leave..it was soooo hard,somehow I managed to find rides home every 3-4 weeks but in between was...rough, we kept each other entertained through interesting internet chat convos/stories..and I had gotten a web cam forever ago just never hooked it up, he didn't have one so finally hooked mine up and he could see/hear me but i just had to settle with the IMs haha, it helped..i guess..he'd send pictures of himself so i could see him, we made it the 8 months and are still dating, in fact our 2 year is coming up next month! We never did the porn thing but, we managed to keep ourselves satisfied Wink i transferred back home to a college closer so i see him all the time now...but that 8 months was..both good and bad i'd say..it was nice bc the 3 week time apart we'd have kept the relationship "fresh" you know? but..it sucked at the same time haha..i'm just glad to be home again!
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Posted: 05-21-08 10:50am

Sinclair Institute puts out some erotica that is a bit more appealing. Google search for them and look at their library. Hope you find one you like. Night trips is pretty good.
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Posted: 05-21-08 23:18pm

Thanks antigone,
I googled them. Is this something I'm going to have to buy? Not that I'm not interested in dong that, I just wanted to make sure they didn't have anything online that I'm just missing. Think you could pm me a link to something with night trips or the library? I'm either way tired or forgot how to correctly use google Very
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Posted: 05-22-08 15:31pm

You know, one thing that I've found is that just watching really sexy movies will do the trick. It's enough of a story that I'm interested, and not so much genitals that I'm turned off- but he likes it as well.

Other than that, there is some porn that is created by women (for women) and that's supposed to be better- but I haven't actually found any yet.
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Posted: 07-11-08 15:24pm

go to youporn.com or redtube.com
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