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Anthony1
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Pregnancy symptoms so soon after sex ?
Posted: 04-16-08 19:43pm
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Im 14 and recently me and my girlfriend
that have been going out for 3 months had
sex together, and she thinks shes pregnant
after the 2nd time of having SAFE
sex.....I used a condom didnt check if it
was bad after and now she said shes having
the symptoms. She told her mom and is
going to doctors.. But can they get
symptoms after 4 days? Because I don't
know if shes just imagining the symptoms.
I'm to young to be a dad so I really hope
shes not. What should I Do?!!!
Regards,
Anthony
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krystineM
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Posted: 04-16-08 20:04pm
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No, most teen girls want to be pregnant.
And since they want to be pregnant, it
makes their minds believe they really are.
You do not get pregnancy symptoms until
[earliest] 3weeks. And thats just blue
veins leading to your chest apparently.
She would not have symptoms this early.
She's putting them in her head.
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Anthony1
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krystineM
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Posted: 04-16-08 20:20pm
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I dont think she is pregnant. Some girls
worry themselves alot after having sex.
I know i did when it was my first time.
But you used protection, if it broke or
anything, i am pretty sure you would feel
it.
Since you said her mom is taking her to
the doctors, maybe she will get birth
control.
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Ingi
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Re: only 14 and SCARED GUY
Posted: 04-16-08 21:06pm
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| Anthony1
wrote: | Im 14 and recently me and my
girlfriend that have been going out for 3
months had sex together, and she thinks
shes pregnant after the 2nd time of having
SAFE sex.....I used a condom didnt check
if it was bad after and now she said shes
having the symptoms. She told her mom and
is going to doctors.. But can they get
symptoms after 4 days? Because I don't
know if shes just imagining the symptoms.
I'm to young to be a dad so I really hope
shes not. What should I Do?!!!
Regards,
Anthony |
Hi Anthony. Your girlfriend is NOT having
pregnancy symptoms. In fact, the egg and
sperm (if they have met) would not have
even implanted on the uterus yet.
She is having what is called a 'hysterical
pregnancy'. Where she convinces herself
that she is pregnant and therefore feels
all the symptoms, etc.
By the way, what are her symptoms? Usually
the first one a teen girl will get is a
missed period, followed by incredibly sore
breasts.
It takes 10 to 14 days AFTER conception
(egg and sperm meetting) before a
pregnancy test will be positive. A doctor
won't be able to tell anything at this
point.
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Amethyst_Butterfly
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Posted: 04-16-08 23:25pm
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shes not pregnant.im sure she'd love to be
though
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rainstorm
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Posted: 04-17-08 06:21am
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Why would a 14 year girl girl love to be
pregnant?
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michellep2
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Posted: 04-17-08 08:33am
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she not pregnant i didn't realize i was
prego untill i was 5 weeks. and my cousin
was4 months when she realized she might
be, she was, but not a cupple of days. the
fertalized egg hasn't even had time to
attach its self to the utern wall yet at
just a cupple of days!
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Anthony1
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Posted: 04-17-08 14:18pm
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She hasn't had her period because she
doesnt have it in till late in the month,
and she said shes sick to the stomach and
breast hurt a lot, and she goes to the
bathroom A lot now...But does she have to
miss her period first and its only been 5
days.
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manuftw82
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Posted: 04-17-08 14:31pm
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Those symptoms are all in her head.
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Anthony1
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Posted: 04-17-08 14:48pm
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she wont listen to me and she keeps
threatened to move in with her aunt and
she is probably not pregnant like you guys
said Hysterical Pregnancy. I haven't slept
in 2 days because of all this.
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rainstorm
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Posted: 04-17-08 15:10pm
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What will moving in with her aunt
accomplish?
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manuftw82
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Posted: 04-17-08 16:00pm
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dont worry about it. get some sleep. its
off your shoulders because she is NOT
pregnant.
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Ingi
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Posted: 04-17-08 16:18pm
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Wasn't her mom taking her to the doctor?
 I'll bet she never
told her mom and this is all some
elaborate drama. Truly.
So she would have just gotten off her
period when you had sex? She wouldn't have
been ovulating yet.
She cannot have any symptoms of pregnancy
since her body wouldn't even know she was
pregnant at this point. It is just silly.
Rest. Relax. Breathe. She is freaking out
and causing herself to think all kinds of
things.
In 10 days, go to her house with a
pregnancy test and sit with her while she
takes it.
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krystineM
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Posted: 04-17-08 17:00pm
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This is all in her head.
Have you explained to her that she would
NOT have symptoms this early because the
egg isn't even fertilized yet? She is
giving herself the symptoms.
We have given you some advice, so you dont
have to worry, she isn't pregnant, so get
some sleep, and have some time to
yourself. She's stressing you out for
being completely stubborn.
Sometimes girls like to cause drama to
make their life more intresting, or to get
some attention.
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Reptar
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Posted: 04-17-08 17:22pm
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Maybe her mom should take her to the
doctor, so he can find out why she's
having all these other phantom symptoms.
And then get her on some birth control. My
best guess is that she's just lying to
freak you out and "trap you". It
definitely wouldn't be the first time it
happened to some poor guy.
You should try to nip this in the bud
before it gets out of hand so explain this
to her. She can choose if she still wants
to go ahead with telling her doctor or
waiting for a missed period. If she claims
to miss a period, bring her a test and
demand to see the results as soon as she's
done. Don't let her screw you over. The
chance of her being pregnant is so
ridiculously low.
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Anthony1
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Posted: 04-17-08 17:49pm
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Her mom said wait til she usually has her
period then she'll bring her
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Anthony1
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Posted: 04-17-08 18:21pm
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Just got off the phone with her and shes
complaining about peeing alot lately and
Stomach aches
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Reptar
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Posted: 04-17-08 19:01pm
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Why haven't you told her she would in NO
WAY be experiencing pregnancy symptoms.
It's IMPOSSIBLE. Her body wouldn't even
know she if she were pregnant. If you
explain this to her and she still keeps at
it, I'd suggest finding a new girlfriend.
This one may be a nut.
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Anthony1
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Posted: 04-17-08 19:09pm
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She doesn't want to talk about it on the
phone incase her dad is listening because
only her mom know's. We are going to hang
tomorrow alone and talk.
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