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krystineM
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Posted: 04-21-08 15:13pm
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exactaly!
I mean sure if she was [which she's not]
the parents would be upset with both the
girlfrield and boyfriend, but they cant
just pin it on one of them.
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rainstorm
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Posted: 04-21-08 16:28pm
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| manuftw82
wrote: | | Reptar
wrote: | See, you know, I'd like to
give her the benefit of the doubt and say
"she's just scared!" but really, it seems
counter-intuitive of her to tell her
mother if she's that scared. The reason
most girls are scared at that age is
because they think they'll have to tell
their parents (let's face it, too many
girls think a pregnancy is easy-peasy, or
that they'll "just get an abortion") and
his girlfriend immediately went out and
did this. Unless she's that uninformed
about pregnancy, even after hearing about
it from Anthony (which I also find hard to
believe because she somehow learned about
some symptoms like the frequent need to
urinate, but doesn't know that a condom
protects from pregnancy), she's using a
scare tactic.
There are just too many inconsistencies in
her knowledge. I'd think that anyone who'd
know the symptoms she's claiming to have,
would also know they don't appear a couple
days after protected sex, but girls have
proven me wrong here
before. |
I agree with you
100%. |
I agree with both of you 100%.
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Anthony1
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Posted: 04-21-08 19:14pm
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Yeah all this facts helped alot, Thank
you.
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Anthony1
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Posted: 04-22-08 20:11pm
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Me and Her hung today I explained
everything, and she is pretty sure shes
not she told me shes going to wait till
she has her period to make sure...I told
her its possible it'll be late cause it
was her first time. I forget if thats 100%
true or not.
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Reptar
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Posted: 04-22-08 21:13pm
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Not really. It's possible that her
stressing out can cause it to be late,
along with various other things. I don't
think "just" the fact that you had sex
will cause her to be late.
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lele25
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Posted: 04-22-08 21:55pm
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stress wil deffinately mess you up...I was
always late during college exams
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rainstorm
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Posted: 04-22-08 23:50pm
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Stress can cause late ovulation, which in
turn would cause a later period, but if s
woman has already ovulated before the
stress occurred, her period will not be
late.
Also, sex will have no effect on the
timing of a period, first time or
otherwise.
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Anthony1
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Posted: 04-23-08 06:50am
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Oh Thanks guys seeing that I'm not a girl,
I'm not an expert. But I did get an A+ in
Health and Wellness so I'm pretty
knowledgeable about a lot of things to do
with the body. But Thanks, all you people
helped a lot.
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Amethyst_Butterfly
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Posted: 04-23-08 23:27pm
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Yeah thats cool, so she finally stopped
thinking she was pregnant?
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Anthony1
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Posted: 04-24-08 08:02am
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Yes and today she had her Period =] So
every things fine no kids on the way lol.
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rainstorm
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krystineM
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Posted: 04-24-08 08:05am
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See, a little relazation goes a long way
when thinking or worrying about a
pregnancy [which did not happen at all]
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rainstorm
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
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Posted: 04-24-08 08:06am
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| Anthony1
wrote: | | Oh Thanks guys seeing that
I'm not a girl, I'm not an expert. But I
did get an A+ in Health and Wellness so
I'm pretty knowledgeable about a lot of
things to do with the body. But Thanks,
all you people helped a
lot. |
You are very intelligent, which is obvious
from your posts. Also, you were smart
enough to seek answers when you didn't
know something. That's another sign of
intelligence.
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sarahhendrickson
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Posted: 04-24-08 08:30am
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Now you can get some real sleep!
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manuftw82
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Posted: 04-24-08 08:37am
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yay I'm glad! Finally some rest for you!
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Anthony1
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Posted: 04-24-08 08:49am
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Thank You all and yes I can =]..I think we
aren't going to be having sex for
awhile.And just wait a year or something
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michellep2
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
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Location: racine, ohio, meigs usa
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Posted: 04-24-08 09:25am
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that would be the best thing! i'm glad for
you! i glad everything worked out!
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Rosie H
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Posted: 04-24-08 10:27am
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Im glad no babies on the way, at least not
this soon.
I just want to say that you are a good guy
Anthony. You have a good head on your
shoulders and will make a great pappa,
when the right time comes.
Just be careful. A lot of young girls have
nothing better to do than to think they
are pregnant. Most of its for love and
attention sadly. Just continue to protect
yourself like you have been.
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Anthony1
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
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Posted: 04-24-08 17:16pm
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I will and thanks I'd hope I don't turn
out like my dad.
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rainstorm
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
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Posted: 04-25-08 09:20am
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| Anthony1
wrote: | | Thank You all and yes I can
=]..I think we aren't going to be having
sex for awhile.And just wait a year or
something |
I hope you pick the "or something", and I
hope that "or something" means waiting
more than a year to have sex. In a year
you will only be 15, and what will be
different then than now? Nothing. you
will still be too young to be a dad,
right?
Every act of sexual intercourse carries
with it the possibility of pregnancy, no
matter how good the birth control is that
you are using. On top of that, you can't
be 100% sure the girl you are with,
whoever that may be, will be taking her bc
(if it is the pill form, for example)
correctly, faithfully, on time, etc. Many
girls get pregnant while taking the pill
for these reasons. Then there are the
girls who don't take their bc correctly on
purpose, because they want to become
pregnant.
Either way, accidentally or purposefully,
you will be responsible to pay child
support for the next 18 years. Please
keep these things in mind, and protect
yourself.
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