ok so im 16 and im 6 weeks pregnant...my
boyfriend asked me to marry him of course
and i said yes we have been together for 4
years i kno crazy right...lol but anyways
we are trying to see if his mom will let
us live with them cuz we dont want to be
married and not even live together but we
dont kno how to ask his mom let alone even
bring it up shes told us a millions of
times that shes not abandoning us or not
gonig to be there for us she just says
shes disappointed whcih i can
understand....so basically its a 50/50
thing right now but ...also im a lil
worried bout some things and i would
really like some peoples thoughts and
adivce on some of my questons but iwont
begin to ask unitl i can talk to someone
that wont just give me a "half butt"
answer...
thank you
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michellep2
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Mar 2008 Posts: 40 Location: racine, ohio, meigs usa
Posted: 04-30-08 12:11pm
genibabi , i say just ask her! its a 50/50
chance right? then ask! i'm 18 now. and
14 weeks pregnant. and i live with kevin (
baby's daddy) and his parents! explain the
situation to his mom, tell her that it
would be the best thing for the baby. and
that she said she would support you guys!
i also sure that if she said that she
wouldn't abondon you guys that she
wouldn't turn you guys down if you asked
to move in! you can talk to me if you
like, i promise no "half butt" answers!
lol!
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krystineM
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Oct 2007 Posts: 1355 Location: mississauga, ontario Canada
Thanks: 29
Thanked:15
Posted: 04-30-08 13:13pm
i agree with michellep2,
give it a shot, sit down with your bf and
his mom and calmly talk with her about
it.
say something like...i understand that you
are disappointed about this situation
right now, and you have every right to be
as well...But we were wondering if we
could live with you when the baby is born,
we would pay you rent, and for the things
we need, and when you guys put some money
aside you'll get your own place. Let her
know its just a temporary thing for the
time being.
Being 16 and pregnant is tough, and if you
can get a helping hand through it, it goes
along way.
Im 18 and 24weeks pregnant. I live with my
fiance and his brother & his brothers
wife and 2 kids, and their parents. They
told us they want us to stay so we can put
money aside for our own place, and so i'll
have an extra hand for when my fiance goes
off to work during the days or night.
I would give you "half butt" answers
either if you need to talk too lol
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Dannzibelle
Supporter
Joined: 23 Oct 2006 Posts: 3733 Location: South East, England
Thanks: 21
Thanked:7
Posted: 04-30-08 15:27pm
All you can do is ask and if she says no
then atleast you still have 34 weeks to
figure something out. I was 15 when i was
pregnant so if you ever want to talk about
anything then pm me
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