preggie meggie
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Pregnant and wanting sex
Posted: 06-12-08 19:22pm
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Im 6 months pregnant and WANT sex all the
time... sorry (TMI) But when we do have
sex after a while I start to have HORRIBLE
cramps and have to stop.
I feel bad for him because he dosnt get
off...but I do. It really isnt far for
him, but I dont know what to do for him. I
need some sex positions that I can do
while pregnant. I think the reason I have
such cramping is because of how deep the
penitration is, so mabey somthing that
isnt so suver in that aspect but still
feels good!
Thanks for any advice!
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AyaMiyaki
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Posted: 06-12-08 19:53pm
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You can try being on top. That way you can
control how deep he goes, how fast or
slow, and how rough or gentle you'd like
it.
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preggie meggie
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Posted: 06-14-08 13:32pm
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| AyaMiyaki
wrote: | | You can try being on top.
That way you can control how deep he goes,
how fast or slow, and how rough or gentle
you'd like
it. |
tryed that and it hurt like nothing ive
ever felt before.Lol. I went to the Dr.
yestorday and she told me no more
sex...humph...Lol.
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2eatoria
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Posted: 06-15-08 20:21pm
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I guess it's too late now, but the
side-by-side spoon thing really worked for
us, and she was horny as hell during both
pregnancies. We did the horizontal mambo
both times just hours before labor, and
she never had any problems.
You should definitely listen to your
doctor though. S/he is probably just
being super conservative, but pregnancy
can be a fragile thing, and it's better
safe than sorry. You can have sex later.
Like after the kids are out of the house.
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preggie meggie
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Posted: 06-20-08 18:44pm
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| 2eatoria
wrote: | | You can have sex later.
Like after the kids are out of the house.
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Yea...HA HA thats a LONG time from
now...LOL 
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2eatoria
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Posted: 06-20-08 21:34pm
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| preggie meggie
wrote: | | 2eatoria
wrote: | | You can have sex later.
Like after the kids are out of the house.
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Yea...HA HA thats a LONG time from
now...LOL |
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Ingi
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Posted: 06-20-08 22:05pm
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| preggie meggie
wrote: | | AyaMiyaki
wrote: | | You can try being on top.
That way you can control how deep he goes,
how fast or slow, and how rough or gentle
you'd like
it. |
tryed that and it hurt like nothing ive
ever felt before.Lol. I went to the Dr.
yestorday and she told me no more
sex...humph...Lol. |
Why did she tell you no sex? That is like
torture unless there is a darn good
reason!
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Lilly Ivy
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Posted: 06-20-08 22:57pm
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I was the same way. I CRAVED sex (the ONLY
thing I craved during pregnancy,
ironically) and he didn't like it at all
because of the fact I was pregnant.  We did
it like 3 whole times after I was 20wks.
We did it face to face, my belly never
really got in the way until the very end,
then we just did doggy style, but that
didn't last too long because I'd get
cramps as well. Isn't pregnancy fun?!
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preggie meggie
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Posted: 06-23-08 18:55pm
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| 2eatoria
wrote: | | preggie meggie
wrote: | | 2eatoria
wrote: | | You can have sex later.
Like after the kids are out of the house.
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Yea...HA HA thats a LONG time from
now...LOL |
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 O gezz..Lol. Im
going to cry...Lol.!
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preggie meggie
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Posted: 06-23-08 18:59pm
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| Ingi
wrote: | | preggie meggie
wrote: | | AyaMiyaki
wrote: | | You can try being on top.
That way you can control how deep he goes,
how fast or slow, and how rough or gentle
you'd like
it. |
tryed that and it hurt like nothing ive
ever felt before.Lol. I went to the Dr.
yestorday and she told me no more
sex...humph...Lol. |
Why did she tell you no sex? That is like
torture unless there is a darn good
reason! |
Because it hurts,  They said it could
just be stressing Rylan out (the baby). I
know I want it SO bad it really stinks!!
Lol. But I wasnt
good this weekend and had sex anyways (I
know bad bad.) But we just went really
really slow and carful and it didnt hurt
so I think I will talk to my Dr. again
about it on the 16th and try to find a
happy medium.
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preggie meggie
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Posted: 06-23-08 19:01pm
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| Lilly Ivy
wrote: | | Isn't pregnancy
fun?! |
Lol. mabey not fun, but deff. amazing! I
like being pregnant...But I want to have
sex too,Lol.
Lol. Im just going to apologize to all of
you now, for this TMI post. 
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Posted: 06-23-08 19:06pm
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I feel your pain. I've only had sex once
since i found out i was pregnant and i'll
be 15 weeks tomorrow! urg!!! I was told no
sex now too
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Posted: 06-29-08 23:05pm
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we dont really have sex very often even
though i want it. I dont think dh is as
attracted to me that way ne more . He always tries
to mess with my boobs or w/e when im
changing, but when we go to bed at night
he will just watch tv. and not want to do
ne thing. Its sad to me that he enjoys
his hand more than his wife.
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preggie meggie
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Posted: 06-30-08 09:17am
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^^ Aww thats so sad, Im sure thats not the
case. I hope things get better for you!
**HUGS**
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Posted: 06-30-08 09:52am
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hey ladies. I have so much trouble with
sex now too. Except I dont want it, well
more like I cant have it cause it hurts. I
was taking estrogen cream to prevent
painful sex, which I cant take now. Now
that I am preggos I am in pain a lot, even
without sex. So we have to pick and choose
our times.
Hubby likes the boobs too. I am soo afraid
of something coming out of them that it
grosses me out when he starts to pay
attention to them..lol. I dont know why
this is such a turn off!
Its just crazy. I feel sexy though..it
just hurts so that turns me off right
away. I cant wait until sex is back to
normal.
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trijos21
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Posted: 06-30-08 21:31pm
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Same here rosie!!! Do they know why it
hurts you so much???
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