Well, I have been dating my current
boyfriend for awhile, and have had a
pregnancy scare before. I have a 24 day
cycle, and we had sex on June 9th... which
(according to a lot of online calculators)
was the day I ovulated.
He wants to have a baby. I'm not so sure.
I would like to have a baby with him, at
some point, but not now...
My period isn't late yet, due on the 24th
of June... But I have been extremely
nauseous with slight stomach cramps, a
firm stomach (that feels kinda bigger? Not
sure), as well as EXTREME mood swings
(which consist of me getting far too
irritated with my bf, and then breaking
down and crying, and later being so happy
he just looks at me like I'm crazy), I
have also been experiencing fatigue... and
lots of it. Usually by this time before my
period, I have extreme cramps, and that's
it...
Bf doesn't want me to take a test yet, he
says it's more fun to wait. But I'm just
curious...
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Posted: 06-18-08 16:57pm
You aren't having mood swings related to
pregnancy. Your body hasn't made enough
pregnancy hormone to trigger a pregnancy
test, it certainly hasn't made enough
hormones to cause pregnancy symtpoms.
I'd be irritated with my boyfriend if he
thought getting me pregnant was 'FUN' or
even though I should get pregnant. Girl,
you have high school to finish. College to
go to. LIFE TO LIVE. You don't need a baby
on your hip while you are doing it - it
makes it 1,000 times harder - trust me.
Get on birth control. There isn't any
reason to have unprotected sex when free
birth control is readily available! Don't
have an accidental baby - have a baby you
are ready to welcome into this world and
provide an amazing life for. Don't have a
baby you have to scrounge up money for a
pregnancy test for. Or wonder how you'll
buy that next pack of diapers. Have a baby
on YOUR TERMS not on someone else's.
It is too early for any of these pregnancy
symptoms. A test would not be positive
(even if you were pregnant!) until 10-14
days after conception. Its only been 9
days. Wait until your period is late, then
test.
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Posted: 06-18-08 19:48pm
i agree completely here with ingi,and to
me what you are describing sounds like
what i go through when my period is
due.pms symptoms.....your stomach wouldnt
even be a tiny bit bigger by this amount
of time.
Well normally when I'm not pregnant, and
my period is coming up, usually about a
week to a few days before I have that as
well. Theres no way you have enough
hormones built up to have any actual
symptoms.