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Q: pregnant through clothing ?
asked by: kjkj on July 3rd, 2008
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hi i donno who is gonna read this to help me..but whoever plz do...
im worried abt dry humping with my boyfriend.we are in our teen yrs...we have done this many time b4 n do not indulge in nething more than this(sex)
but this tym...i was in my hoseiry pj's n he was in his lowers...he ejaculated n we contd. rubbing against each other...we both wre also wearing our underwear....i v read a lot abt this n mostli i hear no,i cant get pregnant bcz of clothes...but still im scared to death...i read in one place though dat it cud get me preg.
actuali i belong to a country whr sadli we have never been given ne sex edu. n sex is like a taboo word...so il be dead if iam...plzzz telll me...cud i be pregnant after such a situation..
since dat day iv been worrin alot n have been feeling unwell too...maybe it is bcz im anxious...i donno knw....
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Mabel
replied on July 3rd, 2008
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You are not pregnant. Sperm has to get inside your vagina. There is no super magical sperm that can somehow penetrate clothing. It does not happen.
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Amethyst_Butterfly
replied on July 3rd, 2008
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wow....I can't read that. Can you rewrite that in...english?
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Zanny
replied on July 3rd, 2008
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There wouldn't be any point in the OP re-writing her post, Ingi's already given the correct answer to her question.
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trijos21
replied on July 3rd, 2008
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Agreed...not pregnant...and since your a TEEN get on birth control
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Mabel
replied on July 4th, 2008
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trijos21 wrote:
Agreed...not pregnant...and since your a TEEN get on birth control


Anyone, teen or 40 year old, should be using birth control if they do not wish to be pregnant.
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_tanya_
replied on July 4th, 2008
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I imagine someone this uninformed about sex probably doesn't know much about birth control either....I strongly suggest getting informed about sex in general (i.e what can and cannot get your pregnant, how to avoid STD's, as well as what forms of birth control are available to you and would best suit your needs.) When in doubt go see a doctor. It's private and confidential and you can ask all the questions you want no matter how silly it sounds to you
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eeyore46
replied on July 4th, 2008
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Amethyst Butterfly
I think this forum is open to any language, however, I think you understood the question - why the rude remark?
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Amethyst_Butterfly
replied on July 4th, 2008
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I wasn't trying to be rude, I honestly can't understand their writing. The spelling is so messed up, I couldn't read it.
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kjkj
replied on July 4th, 2008
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to Amethyst_Butterfly

sorry if u could not understand my writing ...actually im used to writing in this shortcut style on the net...so that it goes faster...i do know how to speak and write english although it is not my mother tongue......and thankyou so much for a reply ,i know u were not being rude...it is okay.thank u.

to everyone else who has replied to my post...thanks so much...iam feeling a lot better now but still nervous...n i donno how will i go to a doc. i live in a small town of india...n here evrione knws evrione...u knw...im scared my parents wud come to knw sumhow...im sooo dead then... anyways i hope such a time does not come at all... and i get my period on time...
i wont be soo silly the next time for sure...
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eeyore46
replied on July 5th, 2008
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amethyst butterfly
Oh please, you are from the U.S., you read it just like the rest of us. Please be more tactful and respectful in your responses.

kjkj,

Yes, you have learned a lesson, and hopefully you are not pregnant. As Inji said, you should not be pregnant - the sperm should not have traveled through your clothing. I know you are worried, but I really do not think you have anything to worry about - this time. Good luck - and remember as we mature, we learn valuable lessons along the way - I think this is one of them.
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kjkj
replied on July 5th, 2008
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mmm....its tue that only after u make a mitake u learn from it...and i have learnt a lesson..

but yeah...i wrote in my first post that i had been feeling unwell after that day...iam not feeling the cramps and nauseated anymore but there is a slight pain in my breasts...could it be a symptom of pregnancy...actally i read sumwhr that our body plays tricks with us..if a woman worries that she might be pregnant then her body shows her the signs like sore brests,nausea,headaches,morning sickness,frequent trips to the loo...and then she gets her period...Sooo is this true...cause i had my last period on the 18th...n yeah i have been worrying a lot too...could that pain just be PMS

Crying or Very sad
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Amethyst_Butterfly
replied on July 5th, 2008
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Re: amethyst butterfly
eeyore46 wrote:
Oh please, you are from the U.S., you read it just like the rest of us. Please be more tactful and respectful in your responses.



Do you have something against me or something? She wasn't the least bit insulted by my response I don't know why your attacking me over it.
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trijos21
replied on July 5th, 2008
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Ingi wrote:
trijos21 wrote:
Agreed...not pregnant...and since your a TEEN get on birth control


Anyone, teen or 40 year old, should be using birth control if they do not wish to be pregnant.


Yes i realize that but in her case she is a teen and thats why i said that Wink
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eeyore46
replied on July 5th, 2008
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No attack, I just feel a person who posts on the forum is looking for advice - not criticism about their language and how they post. I have nothing against you - I do not even know you. Just feel bad for a lot of these young girls who are worried. I think you should have answered the post rather than talk about her writing abilities. As well, I should not have responded to your post and just responded to the original post. Sorry, I need to stay on track with the original post when I am trying to help or give advice.
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worrywart01
replied on July 5th, 2008
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Re: amethyst butterfly
Amethyst_Butterfly wrote:
eeyore46 wrote:
Oh please, you are from the U.S., you read it just like the rest of us. Please be more tactful and respectful in your responses.



Do you have something against me or something? She wasn't the least bit insulted by my response I don't know why your attacking me over it.


for whats its worth it kinda bugs me too haha

i have a harder time reading that shorthand stuff for some reason!
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eeyore46
replied on July 5th, 2008
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What bugs you?

I know, I am not to savy when it comes to this email - messenger stuff! A lot of times I have to call my daugher and ask her what it means.
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worrywart01
replied on July 5th, 2008
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the shorthand stuff bugs me just bc its takes me so much longer to read it and i'm lazy enough as it is haha
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kjkj
replied on July 5th, 2008
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hello ....iAM SCARED ....help!!!
God....please answer my problem...Someone.....................
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eeyore46
replied on July 5th, 2008
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kjkj,

Please go to the nearest store and buy a pregnancy test - very inexpensive - that will give you your ansswer. But, again stop worrying - what is done - is done. I am positive your are not pregnant - just get a home pregnancy test so you will stop worrying about it.
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