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kjkj
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pregnant through clothing ?
Posted: 07-03-08 13:55pm
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hi i donno who is gonna read this to help
me..but whoever plz do...
im worried abt dry humping with my
boyfriend.we are in our teen yrs...we have
done this many time b4 n do not indulge in
nething more than this(sex)
but this tym...i was in my hoseiry pj's n
he was in his lowers...he ejaculated n we
contd. rubbing against each other...we
both wre also wearing our underwear....i v
read a lot abt this n mostli i hear no,i
cant get pregnant bcz of clothes...but
still im scared to death...i read in one
place though dat it cud get me preg.
actuali i belong to a country whr sadli we
have never been given ne sex edu. n sex is
like a taboo word...so il be dead if
iam...plzzz telll me...cud i be pregnant
after such a situation..
since dat day iv been worrin alot n have
been feeling unwell too...maybe it is bcz
im anxious...i donno knw....
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Posted: 07-03-08 14:58pm
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You are not pregnant. Sperm has to get
inside your vagina. There is no super
magical sperm that can somehow penetrate
clothing. It does not happen.
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Posted: 07-03-08 17:39pm
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wow....I can't read that. Can you rewrite
that in...english?
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Posted: 07-03-08 17:42pm
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There wouldn't be any point in the OP
re-writing her post, Ingi's already given
the correct answer to her question.
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Posted: 07-03-08 20:02pm
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Agreed...not pregnant...and since your a
TEEN get on birth control
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Posted: 07-04-08 00:21am
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| trijos21
wrote: | | Agreed...not pregnant...and
since your a TEEN get on birth
control |
Anyone, teen or 40 year old, should be
using birth control if they do not wish to
be pregnant.
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Posted: 07-04-08 00:33am
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I imagine someone this uninformed about
sex probably doesn't know much about birth
control either....I strongly suggest
getting informed about sex in general (i.e
what can and cannot get your pregnant, how
to avoid STD's, as well as what forms of
birth control are available to you and
would best suit your needs.) When in doubt
go see a doctor. It's private and
confidential and you can ask all the
questions you want no matter how silly it
sounds to you
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Amethyst Butterfly
Posted: 07-04-08 00:57am
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I think this forum is open to any
language, however, I think you understood
the question - why the rude remark?
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Posted: 07-04-08 01:43am
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I wasn't trying to be rude, I honestly
can't understand their writing. The
spelling is so messed up, I couldn't read
it.
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Posted: 07-04-08 03:57am
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to Amethyst_Butterfly
sorry if u could not understand my writing
...actually im used to writing in this
shortcut style on the net...so that it
goes faster...i do know how to speak and
write english although it is not my mother
tongue......and thankyou so much for a
reply ,i know u were not being rude...it
is okay.thank u.
to everyone else who has replied to my
post...thanks so much...iam feeling a lot
better now but still nervous...n i donno
how will i go to a doc. i live in a small
town of india...n here evrione knws
evrione...u knw...im scared my parents wud
come to knw sumhow...im sooo dead then...
anyways i hope such a time does not come
at all... and i get my period on time...
i wont be soo silly the next time for
sure...
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amethyst butterfly
Posted: 07-05-08 02:25am
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Oh please, you are from the U.S., you read
it just like the rest of us. Please be
more tactful and respectful in your
responses.
kjkj,
Yes, you have learned a lesson, and
hopefully you are not pregnant. As Inji
said, you should not be pregnant - the
sperm should not have traveled through
your clothing. I know you are worried,
but I really do not think you have
anything to worry about - this time. Good
luck - and remember as we mature, we learn
valuable lessons along the way - I think
this is one of them.
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Posted: 07-05-08 04:12am
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mmm....its tue that only after u make a
mitake u learn from it...and i have learnt
a lesson..
but yeah...i wrote in my first post that i
had been feeling unwell after that
day...iam not feeling the cramps and
nauseated anymore but there is a slight
pain in my breasts...could it be a symptom
of pregnancy...actally i read sumwhr that
our body plays tricks with us..if a woman
worries that she might be pregnant then
her body shows her the signs like sore
brests,nausea,headaches,morning
sickness,frequent trips to the loo...and
then she gets her period...Sooo is this
true...cause i had my last period on the
18th...n yeah i have been worrying a lot
too...could that pain just be PMS
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Re: amethyst butterfly
Posted: 07-05-08 15:46pm
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| eeyore46
wrote: | Oh please, you are from the
U.S., you read it just like the rest of
us. Please be more tactful and
respectful in your responses.
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Do you have something against me or
something? She wasn't the least bit
insulted by my response I don't know why
your attacking me over it.
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Posted: 07-05-08 16:12pm
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| Ingi
wrote: | | trijos21
wrote: | | Agreed...not pregnant...and
since your a TEEN get on birth
control |
Anyone, teen or 40 year old, should be
using birth control if they do not wish to
be pregnant. |
Yes i realize that but in her case she is
a teen and thats why i said that 
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Posted: 07-05-08 20:52pm
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No attack, I just feel a person who posts
on the forum is looking for advice - not
criticism about their language and how
they post. I have nothing against you - I
do not even know you. Just feel bad for a
lot of these young girls who are worried.
I think you should have answered the post
rather than talk about her writing
abilities. As well, I should not have
responded to your post and just responded
to the original post. Sorry, I need to
stay on track with the original post when
I am trying to help or give advice.
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Re: amethyst butterfly
Posted: 07-05-08 21:33pm
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| Amethyst_Butterfly
wrote: | | eeyore46
wrote: | Oh please, you are from the
U.S., you read it just like the rest of
us. Please be more tactful and
respectful in your responses.
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Do you have something against me or
something? She wasn't the least bit
insulted by my response I don't know why
your attacking me over
it. |
for whats its worth it kinda bugs me too
haha
i have a harder time reading that
shorthand stuff for some reason!
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Posted: 07-05-08 21:50pm
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What bugs you?
I know, I am not to savy when it comes to
this email - messenger stuff! A lot of
times I have to call my daugher and ask
her what it means.
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Posted: 07-05-08 21:55pm
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the shorthand stuff bugs me just bc its
takes me so much longer to read it and i'm
lazy enough as it is haha
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hello ....iAM SCARED ....help!!!
Posted: 07-05-08 22:15pm
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God....please answer my
problem...Someone.....................
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Posted: 07-05-08 22:40pm
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kjkj,
Please go to the nearest store and buy a
pregnancy test - very inexpensive - that
will give you your ansswer. But, again
stop worrying - what is done - is done. I
am positive your are not pregnant - just
get a home pregnancy test so you will stop
worrying about it.
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