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worrywart01
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Posted: 07-05-08 22:42pm
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they already have dear...read the other
posts
it is highly highly unlikely you are
pregnant..think about it..the sperm would
have to travel through his
underwear..through yours...if you are then
its a child from God seriously..theres no
way you're pregnant
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Amethyst_Butterfly
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Posted: 07-05-08 22:47pm
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| eeyore46
wrote: | What bugs you?
I know, I am not to savy when it comes to
this email - messenger stuff! A lot of
times I have to call my daugher and ask
her what it
means. |
LOL my mom is the same way, she's always
calling me up to help her with her
computer stuff. 
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eeyore46
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Posted: 07-05-08 23:04pm
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Sweetie, have you ever had sexual
intercourse before? If the answer is no,
then there is NO WAY you can be pregnant.
The first time you have sexual intercourse
(penis penetration) there is bleeding
because it breaks your hymen allowing the
sperm to connect with your eggs. Please
stop worrying and go get the home
pregnancy test now. Is there some reason
you can't get the home pregnancy test?
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*star*
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Posted: 07-06-08 10:33am
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| eeyore46
wrote: | | Sweetie, have you ever had
sexual intercourse before? If the answer
is no, then there is NO WAY you can be
pregnant. The first time you have sexual
intercourse (penis penetration) there is
bleeding because it breaks your hymen
allowing the sperm to connect with your
eggs. Please stop worrying and go get the
home pregnancy test now. Is there some
reason you can't get the home pregnancy
test? |
Not to go off in another direction, but
there is not alway bleeding when you first
have sex. That doesnt happen for
everyone.
For the OP, like everyone else has
said...YOU ARE NOT PREGNANT!!!
If you are, you have a miracle baby on
your hands and you should consider
yourself special.
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Zanny
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Posted: 07-06-08 10:53am
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| *star*
wrote: | | Not to go off in another
direction, but there is not alway bleeding
when you first have sex. That doesnt
happen for
everyone. |
Very true, I didn't bleed the first time I
had sex. But yeah, that's kinda off-topic.
The OP has been given her answer several
times, so I'm not going to repeat it.
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kjkj
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Posted: 07-06-08 13:42pm
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hmmm....i will...but does that pain
reflect as a sign...or is it just because
iam vexed...do symptoms show so soon?
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_tanya_
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Posted: 07-06-08 13:52pm
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Your not pregnant so any "symptoms" your
having are either due to: stress, illness,
pms, or fabricated in your head based on
your fears
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eeyore46
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Posted: 07-06-08 21:27pm
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Really, I never knew that! I will have
to research that on the web.
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worrywart01
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_tanya_
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Posted: 07-06-08 21:44pm
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I didn't bleed either. It wasn't super
comfortable but i definitely didnt bleed.
Alot of women break their hymens in
childhood (horsebackriding, bickriding
etc.) and there are some women who don't
even have one to begin with!
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Amethyst_Butterfly
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Posted: 07-06-08 22:35pm
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I bled quite a bit, it was awful and it
hurt.
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_tanya_
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Posted: 07-06-08 23:22pm
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It doesn't hurt because of your hymen
breaking though. Your hymen has no nerve
endings. Any pain women usually experience
their first time have to do with muscles
tightening from being nervous or whatever
or not being turned on enough
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Roberta777
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It is Definitely True
Posted: 07-06-08 23:44pm
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My brother put me upon our pony without a
saddle, and all I could do was hang on to
her mane. I was ten years old. I got off
and there was blood on my panties.
So, yes, the hymen can be lost by such a
pursuit.
Becoming pregnant by someone touching you
through your clothing and without any
penetration is extremely unlikely.
Take care of yourself and wait until you
meet the right person.
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kjkj
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thankyou....sooo much...
Posted: 07-07-08 02:55am
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iam really happy reading the
posts...thanks for the advice and
support......
well,i really love this guy...he is i hope
my right person...but yeah it is too soon
to tell...im only 19...but he is really
nice...he too has been very supportive...
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kjkj
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Posted: 07-07-08 03:02am
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| eeyore46
wrote: | | Sweetie, have you ever had
sexual intercourse before? If the answer
is no, then there is NO WAY you can be
pregnant. The first time you have sexual
intercourse (penis penetration) there is
bleeding because it breaks your hymen
allowing the sperm to connect with your
eggs. Please stop worrying and go get the
home pregnancy test now. Is there some
reason you can't get the home pregnancy
test? |
no...i have not had any sex as in
sex...intercourse...
and i dont think i have ever bled because
of my hymem breaking...or maybe i dont
remember if i would have been very
young...
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kjkj
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Posted: 07-07-08 03:08am
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| eeyore46
wrote: | | Sweetie, have you ever had
sexual intercourse before? If the answer
is no, then there is NO WAY you can be
pregnant. The first time you have sexual
intercourse (penis penetration) there is
bleeding because it breaks your hymen
allowing the sperm to connect with your
eggs. Please stop worrying and go get the
home pregnancy test now. Is there some
reason you can't get the home pregnancy
test? |
and yes there is a reason why i cant get
the home pregnancy test...because here
people are really weird...i dont think you
guys can understand...but for people in my
country if a boy and a girl have a
relationship before they get married ...it
is almost like a sin...not in all parts of
the country...but people in my town are
still very conservative..so it is really
odd for a girl of my age to get a thing
like that from the market...but yeah...i
feel pretty okay now...if i dont get my
period wen its due...then i will just
think of a way to get it!
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kyky
Posted: 07-07-08 22:32pm
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I grew up in the country, too. To shame
your family by doing anything sexual was
like a sword thrown through their heart
and their name and reputation. Yours,
too.
Just be careful.
And, remember, there are always going to
be the beaters of the society in which we
live. To do it their way and now they are
old. I say do your own thing, but be
careful and don't offend them. People can
be really mean.
It is called society  and the rules are
laid out long before we are born, kyky.
Take care of yourself dear one.
Bobbie
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worrywart01
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Posted: 07-07-08 22:39pm
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My parents are the same "no sex before
marriage" and whatnot...i was going to
wait but..fell in love things happened
yadda yadda...it didn't happen, i was 19
when I lost my virginity..i dont regret
it...2 years later and we're still
together, but like you..to have sex
outside of marriage in my family is sinful
and to have an unwanted pregnancy...oh
goodness..i dont know what they would do
thankfully theres birth control!
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kjkj
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yaay!!
Posted: 07-14-08 00:44am
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hey people...i got my period!
im soo relaxed now!
thankyou to all u guys 
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