You and the baby are going to be fine.

I got a child Jessy with a man from Mozambique, a different country than my homeland Kenya. The child's family lived in Kenya as refugees. My heart is beating just thinking about it. My family could not hear of it, a refugee? It was in 1990 when my daughter was born. They became so hostile at home for having sex before marriage and having a child out side of wedlock. Violence was a factor and so I left home with my daughter. We suffered quite a bit but with time, they really loved Jessy. Now she is long dead and all I have are memories.

Don't take any abuse.

I am sure you will do fine. I never told my family I was pregnant until I was six months pregnant and kicked out of college for being pregnant. It was a Catholic school.

Oh yea, the baby will be one heavens of a cute baby. No doubt.

All the best with that. You don't even have to tell them if you find it is difficult to tell them. But again you say you have many black friends who they know of so it won't shock them. How about just saying you are pregnant and not saying any more? And then SURPRISE!! Lot's of options.

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Muthoni (Mson)

Congradulations on your baby.
I am married to a Black Man and i have 2 children my father passed two years before i had my son but he was racist.. kinda my fathers family found out i was pregnant and they had no choice tolike it or not to I was having the baby anyway, You and your baby are goingto be beautiful. My family and my fathers family accept it because they love me. I am still who i am it doesnt matter the race of a child or who you are with as long as you love them and they respect you for who you are.
If your family love you they will see this is what you want and that you are happy.
A PERSON IS A PERSON NO MATTER WHAT RACE THEY ARE!!! ESPECIALLY IF IT IS YOUR BABY...
SONT FORGET TO POST PICS OF THE BABY AND YOU...
CONGRATS AGAIN

SINCERELY,
WENDY

You lost your daughter Muthoni? I'm so sorry!

Yes, Jessy passed away at six years ten months. She was in Kenya and I was here. After mourning her for 10 years, I let go and I was healed. Thanks for your sympathy Jules, much appreciated. If she had lived, she could have been 18 years old in August.

I am sure she is in good hands.

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Muthoni (Mson)

Oh that's just so awful, such a young age.

You're a brave lady and I bet Jessy is proud of her mummy.

Jessy died of a penicilin reaction.

The dispensary was so unequipped that they strapped Jessy one the baby sitter's back and sent her home via transit bus. Unreal. She was already dead.

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Muthoni (Mson)

I lost our son full term he lived for 90 minutes and passed away from Brittle Bone Disease. Born Aug,11,2005 and passed Aug, 12, 2005. When was your daughters birthday. i am not a religious person but,
I do believe God only gives us what we can handle.

Wendy

Sorry to hear about the death of your son.

Thanks for your strong words.

Jessy was a Virgo. August 31. She would have been 18 this August. I cannot even imagine.

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Muthoni (Mson)