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beefsteak

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pregnant with boyfriend ?
Posted: 06-09-08 11:53am

Kind of long so please bear with me.

My boyfriend and I did a full swap with a couple on April 27. (For those of you who don't know that means I had sex with the other man and he had sex with the woman.) We used a condom and it DID NOT break. But because I am a worry wart I took the morning after pill anyway a few hours after the encounter. A few days later I had some spotting. I thought it was my period starting, but then it stopped very quickly.

I'm a little vague as to when my last period was, but I believe it was around March 20 because I remember thinking right before our encounter with the couple that I was already late. So about a week and half to two weeks after we were with the couple I start feeling nausea and my breasts were very sore. We took a home pregnancy test on May 20th and it was positive. We went to the doctor and they did a pregnancy blood test and it was positive. They said judging from my hcg levels I am a little over two months along.

So you would think it's my boyfriend for sure right? We never use any protection in three years I have not gotten pregnant. He had a test done a year ago and was told the chances of him ever being a father were slim to none.

So my question is it possible it was from the couple encounter? I don't see how as a condom was used that didn't fail AND the morning after pill. All of the conception calculators say I got pregnant in early April. I also had an ultrasound done on May 29. The person performing the ultrasound said I was about 8-9 weeks. The actual doctor said 10 weeks.

What's your opinion? I need reassurance.
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Mabel

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Posted: 06-09-08 12:03pm

You should follow your doctor's recommendations and not look to the internet for reassurance. ** People's opinions aren't always going to be great medical advice** Your doctor will know more about your medical history and your body than anyone on the world wide web will.

It sounds like your boyfriend's child. If you were late when you had sex and the ultrasound dates your pregnancy much further along than when you 'swapped' partners.

**Edited to add**
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Zanny

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Posted: 06-09-08 12:15pm

Yes, I would say it's your boyfriend's child. If the ultrasound said you were 8-9 weeks along that means you would have conceived around the 3rd April.
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