Pregnant with genital warts

the whole post you have made excuses when people have tried to be helpful, why?

You want an answer, you want people to assure you, that you are doing the right thing, which you aren't.

You have no money, how can you afford herbal remedies much less prenatal care, you aren't thinking about anyone but yourself, and you want the attention....

There is a few of us on here, who have nothing and have had kids but I swear to god I did not act like a twit......nowhere near what you are doing

GROW UP, get off you butt and get some help lady.

People worked hard and fought hard for our rights to quality prenatal care...

Denying you potential child the right to prenantal care is disgusting, considering you really want that pregnancy!

BTW I read your previous posts and you have been nothing but rude, I WOULD advise no one to post

you have a few options here
-Go get medicaid
-they also have hospital who will push the claims
-Go see a bloody dr, that can be a high risk pregnancy
-Herbal remedies during pregnancy can be just as dangerous as prescriptions
-Prescriptions while under a drs care are different, they will watch you closer
-Stop making excuses and take responsibility
-When people give you advice it is always nice to say thanks

I'm not going to waste much more of my time on you FallenKitty....

Bottom line is that you were raped, pregnant and want to lash out at everyone who has given you advise. So either take our advice, say something nice or leave.

I gave you advice on genital warts so you saying that no one has helped is not true. We all have however you have chosen not to listen and continue to lash out. Apparently your post is 'temporarily unavailable'....depending upon the review of such will determine if it will be available once more or forever gone.

You say you have a fiance' and he will take care of this unwanted child...you two live together, correct? Like this is going to make you feel better? Doubtful...as newborns require attention and will he be taking him / her to the sitters or will you be responsible (and I use that term loosely) for him / her while he is away?

You said that you were turned down for assistance...if you included his income as well that would be the reason....you need only to apply for yourself and no one else, try that and your chances of obtaining an approval has improved.

God is spelled with a Captial G and not a lower case g. Too bad that you don't believe as sincere prayers truly works.

You said you don't like doctors or medication however you have lost two previous pregnancies?! I would suggest birth control but that is your no-no.

I could go on and on but you will continue to lash out so with that said...you seriously need help in dealing with all of this and since you don't like ours nor doctors have you considered a rape counselor or a support group...it would benefit you and your anger...the question is do you want help or is it easier to be ugly?

Natural selection you say? I laughed at that one. Once you are mature, attitude-wise, you will realize how wrong you are in the comments that you have made.

There are probably other issues that are pestering you but I am not going to start asking a zillion questions to retreive such from FallenKitty as you have not been upfront with us.

~Zig

I have been upfront, but it doesn't matter anymore
I don't talk to people, especially people that are supposed to help
they've screwed me over before
so I'm not doing that again

and my fiance is going to be taking care of the spawn I'm stuck with
because he knows I won't
I hate children [that won't ever change]
and I hate just bout everyone out there
because they allow rapist to run the streets and hurt women like me
that's how I got pregnant the other times as well
because otherwise I am careful, BECAUSE I DO NOT WANT KIDS EVER

I don't want to deal with they're crying and screaming
and you won't ever see me change a dirty diaper
sorry but I'm not wiping another person's a$$ ever
I have a hard enough time taking care of my own needs
I'm not about to deal with a baby constantly

again, that's my fiance's job

I hope you reported the rape so he cannot do this to another woman again.

I hope you find the peace you need, however you get it.

I'm not dealing with him in court because I do not want him to know where I am

nor do I want to be talking about details of what happened to me to ANYONE
especially a stranger

he thinks he's gonna find me and get custody
I'm just going to let him think he can
cuz my friends will make sure he's never in my life again

How would he have ever known you were pregnant? Or that is was his (since you are engaged currently)?

You can't complain about him being on the street if you aren't willing to put him behind bars where he belongs.

You've been raped three times and you don't want to face the last person that did this to you? I don't understand...if you want justice then court would be the place to go...he does not need to know where you are. There are ways around to protect your space, you just need to ask. Is he the same one who did the other two? You may not be the only one that he or they have done this and continues to get by...

You're willing to fight for custody of a child that you do not want nor love?

OK, you're not willing to wipe another person's a$$, expect your fiance' to do it all...what happens if he walks out? Then what...child is neglected, possibly dies and guess what...you are in the headlines of killing your child that you never wanted however you didn't want anybody else to enjoy the responsibilities of being a parent and continue to blame it all on everybody else.

I wish you the best in whatever you do but I ask that you not punish an innocent child. He / she will soon be moving and kickin' soon until he / she is here. Why not do what is best for the child. Giving a child up for adoption is one of the most selfless acts that any mother can do for their child. And in the meantime you can get your life back on track beside your fiance' with no child and a future. You need time to heal emotionally.

~Zig

Well I don't think anyone is worth the pain I'm having to endure because of this child and still am forced to endure
I've already stated such
if someone else wants a kid they can go thru the pain on their own
that is not a sacrifice I feel ANYONE is worth

and the only reason I'm willing to fight him is to hurt him more

and NO MY FIANCE IS NOT THE F***ING RAPIST
You've got to be stupid to think such

No one said that your fiancee was the rapist. Slow down a little, you don't need to jump down everyone's throat.

You need some counseling. This is an incredibly traumatic event you've been through and will continue to go through because of the child.

I think its a load of BS but hey nothing is ever consistent nowadays.....

I got raped and honestly I didn't blab about it, if anything I felt gross and disgusted with myself and couldnt open up to anyone...until a few years ago

Not a pleasant feeling but hey it still doesnt give you a reason to lash out

We aren't here for pity we are here offer empathy, trying to understand but its like you can't do anything, even though alot of people have ofference some of the best help......

Still don't like that well its too bad...

Yea well when it's happened to you repeatedly you start thinking that it's just gonna keep happening
and stop caring

it's not like I have to look at anyone as I talk about it
so it's not like I'm telling anyone at all

but you obviously know nothing about communication

and don't go saying that I don't
I know plenty
I just refuse to put up with anyone's crap

i dont think u need help u need sectioned! wen my baby kicks its the best feelin in the world. and as for you being raped 3 times STOP GETTING SO DRUNK YOU PASS OUT!!! you know as well as all of us there are rapists out there ur putting yourself on a plate to them, u gotta look after yourself especialy on a night out.and if this rapist knows your pregnant then you must know him to have his number to ring him and tell him so i dont believe u when u say i dont want him to know where u are!

are you sure it was a real rape and that u didnt sleep with him then the next day realise it was a mistake coz this seems to be happening alot?

Rape is when you SAY "NO" and that person continues, if that person continues and you finally say "YES" it is no longer rape.....

Alcohol is a bad game, you're basically screaming baby come get me or take advantage of me...

My 16 year sister likes to run this crap, story sounds similar

Her boyfriend that she had been with for sometime, well they had sex and she got pregnant. Now somehow my sister got raped by her boyfriend, but then kept telling everyone else how sex was consented to/enjoyable. Her boyfriend is the sweetest guy in the world, my sister can easily overpower, as I have seen it before, so whos being honest.

It was a back and forth game, one minute she woul talk about their consented sex and when she hated him, she waould take about being raped and about how he treated her like, a bad father.

I was molested at 8 and my parents didnt believe it because it was a family friend but hey you know what, I spoke up.....Oh plus I have two kids damn.........

you and my sister should be friends

STOP MAKING EXCUSEs


There are people in this world who have gone through more, stop whining, get a life and do something this is the most irritating post I have ever read

defo the most irritating post, i think shes got the mentality of a 15yr old spolit brat.


FALLEN KITTY how would you of felt if your mum said she doesnt want you that she wouldnt wipe your a$$?

no matter what you have been thorugh and no matter what pain you go through dont cause your baby pain, every child deserves love and looking after, u say you wont put him/her up for adoption because of the pain you will go through giving birth, is it fair to giv your child a life of missery, what u have said is the most selfish thing a human could do! put yourself in the babys situation, how would u like not being loved and looked after? pls pls pls dont make an innocent child suffer, let him/her have loving parents coz if u dont then your going to end up either having the baby taken off you and put into care or 1 verry messed up child which will continue into adulthood, dont ruin a whole life through your selfishness, put your baby before you.

I don't put anyone but my fiance before me thanks
and he wants the kids and I'm not going to deny him that
and again, I don't believe in adoption
it's not like I'm some drug abuser like some people that get rid of their kids

my parents weren't ever there for me, my grandma took care of me
not my mom, not my dad
I wasn't wanted because I ruined their relationship

and as for the rapist, I was dating him and thought I could trust him
but again, no one ever thinks of it from my point
cuz they're too damn self-absorbed
seriously, my life seems to be so interesting to you people that you seem to need to drag this post on when I already said I'm not going to the doctor
GET OVER IT

it's not your life to live, it's mine

*********** T A K E ******** N O T I C E ************

FallenKitty has spoken once more, she is not going to the doctor, it's her life.

Summary: She asked for advice, we gave....

You know FallenKitty we all have had hardships in our lives in one degree or another and we've doing just fine. I for one was in an abusive marriage however I found the courage to get out with my two young children and start all over, it was up to me to either survive or let him win. I am a survivor, you make your life what you want it to be. I could have easily blamed everyone else what happened to me but that is not who I am. I also have a father who is a moody SOB and I suppose I could have been just like him and blamed my rotten attitude all on him however I choose not be an angry, grumpy person like him and my mom is always right, imagine that! ....and I'm actually a happy person who has common sense and am not always right and I will admit to that. To sum it up...you are in charge of your life so start making smart decisions and decide who you want to be when you grow up.

I hope you have found the answer that you were seeking regarding Genital Warts and that you find peace within your life that you, your fiance and possibly your child can find. You know, history does not have to repeat itself. You, yourself can change that.

I would recommend that you forgive the people that have hurt you in the past but since you do not believe in a God then I suppose forgiveness is out of the question. Anger and resentment will only make you a lonely, irritable person that no one will want to be around.

~Zig