Basically, when masterbating i can easily
go for 10 mins, and when recieving oral
sex i also do not come what i would
consider too soon...
However, i've never had penertrative sex
and my mates for a laugh bought me a
fleshlight...when i've used this i end up
coming within a minute, i really dont
understand this. And im now really nervous
about having sex as im asuming i will come
in a very short amount of time.
Does anyone know why the time i last
varies like this and is there anything i
can do to stop it.
Thanks in advance.
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Dreadmuse
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 21 Apr 2008 Posts: 13 Location: St. Petersburg, fl usa
Posted: 04-21-08 12:45pm
Why worry? If you have not had sex before,
then expect that it won't go on for hours.
Besides, according to studies it is only
an average time of 5 min. So don't worry
about it. Don't put yourself out there as
some race horse, stamana, godlike lover...
and you should be fine.
However... being a man, you are worried...
that is normal. It is all about
sensations. The Fleshlight is a different
sensation than manual masturbation and
even oral. Find ways to reduce the
sensation your first time... condoms
(double wrap even) are not a bad idea no
matter what. They do reduce what you feel
and may calm you down a bit.
Try thinking of other things... ( I don't
like that approach because it really takes
away from the moment). If you find that it
does become something that you can't
control (after a while) then you may want
to talk to a doctor about medications.
There are many medications out there that
make it harder to ejaculate.
