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Posted: 05-29-08 16:05pm

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Um.........the above is.....interesting.... hehe

My reasons for being Prolife are simply because:

*It is against my religious beliefs. In the bible, it says that God hates the shedding of innocent blood.

*I believe that you can't be pro choice without taking choices from other people.

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Innoncent, how do you know they are innoncent?



Well, no one really knows, but then I guess we can't assign innocence OR guilt to unborn babies, newborn babies or young children until they hit a certain age to find out? Innocence seems to be a controversial word. Some people see it one way, others see it another way. Some think it means free of sin. Some think you have to have the ability to be guilty of something first. Some think it means anyone too young to understand evil. Or anyone who doesn't have the ability to understand what is wrong or right.
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Posted: 05-29-08 16:07pm

saria231 wrote:
Um.........the above is.....interesting.... hehe

My reasons for being Prolife are simply because:

*It is against my religious beliefs. In the bible, it says that God hates the shedding of innocent blood.

*I believe that you can't be pro choice without taking choices from other people.

*My doctors and my father wanted me to be aborted and my father actually tried to by beating the crap out of my mother.

*I can't have kids of my own.

*My mom was pretty much on her deathbed when she was having both my younger sister (12) and my brother(9), and she told the doctors to save them instead of her if that time came where that choice had to be made. Fortunately, she is still here, letting me gray her hair. : )

*I am also abstinent.

And many other things to back my views.


Hey saria231, thanks for posting your opinions. They are educational.

Could you explain more why your inability to not have children, your sexual choice (abstinence), and your father's abuse of your mother is part of your reason for being prolife?

Thank you!
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Posted: 05-29-08 16:49pm

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Same here. Once it reaches viability the only excuse for its death is maternal danger in which a c-section is for some reason out of the question.


I dont think it should be an excuse I dont agree on it but that is for myself, when I was pregnant at like 6 months I really enjoyed it, mind you I made the choice and dont hold it against others.

Well the thing is, I find it hard to believe that a c-section couldn't be performed at this stage for a woman who is in danger of dying. Could someone come up with some medical info on this?

I DO know that there are many cases of fetal deformity that is not noticable until late in pregnancy, deformities that cause the fetus pain and will give it a short life, or even cause it death before birth. In these cases I see how abortion is the safest and most humane procedure.
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Posted: 05-29-08 16:50pm

Innocent? Yes, the unborn are innocent. What crimes have the committed? None. They are innocent via human laws and God's laws.
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Posted: 06-12-08 13:40pm

Birch wrote:
saria231 wrote:
Um.........the above is.....interesting.... hehe

My reasons for being Prolife are simply because:

*It is against my religious beliefs. In the bible, it says that God hates the shedding of innocent blood.

*I believe that you can't be pro choice without taking choices from other people.

*My doctors and my father wanted me to be aborted and my father actually tried to by beating the crap out of my mother.

*I can't have kids of my own.

*My mom was pretty much on her deathbed when she was having both my younger sister (12) and my brother(9), and she told the doctors to save them instead of her if that time came where that choice had to be made. Fortunately, she is still here, letting me gray her hair. : )

*I am also abstinent.

And many other things to back my views.


Hey saria231, thanks for posting your opinions. They are educational.

Could you explain more why your inability to not have children, your sexual choice (abstinence), and your father's abuse of your mother is part of your reason for being prolife?

Thank you!


I was raped when I was 12, and it caused me to become sterile. It's a reason I'm prolife because I see women who can have babies throw them away without hesitation when I would kill to have babies. Not literally, but you know what I mean.

Actually, I have been abstinent for about a year and a half. It is just a personal choice I made for myself to stop having sex. Fortunately, my man supported me in my choice and we are still happy today. : )

The main reason I'm prolife, is because of my mommy. I have seen her in the worst places and in the worst conditions, because she protected me no matter what. I know for a fact, she would give her life to better or keep mine safe. I have been in situations where I thought my father was going to kill her, and she never thought once about not keeping me safe. She has fought so hard for me, and I owe her my life. I know without her, and her love for me, I would have nothing. Absolutely nothing.
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Posted: 06-12-08 14:09pm

So you believe others shouldn't be legally allowed to have safe abortions performed by doctors because YOU can't have children? What do you have to do with them? Do you even know these women?

What does your abstinance have to do with other women getting abortions?

Your mother sounds like a brave woman. Your mother had a choice, and she made the choice to protect you. Other women might decide that the best choice for THEIR unplanned pregnancy by an abuser is to abort. Whether you agree with that choice, or whether she is willing or able to do what your mother did, is irrelevant. Your mother was free to choose, and so should every other woman.
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Posted: 06-12-08 15:21pm

saria231 wrote:
Birch wrote:
saria231 wrote:
Um.........the above is.....interesting.... hehe

My reasons for being Prolife are simply because:

*It is against my religious beliefs. In the bible, it says that God hates the shedding of innocent blood.

*I believe that you can't be pro choice without taking choices from other people.

*My doctors and my father wanted me to be aborted and my father actually tried to by beating the crap out of my mother.

*I can't have kids of my own.

*My mom was pretty much on her deathbed when she was having both my younger sister (12) and my brother(9), and she told the doctors to save them instead of her if that time came where that choice had to be made. Fortunately, she is still here, letting me gray her hair. : )

*I am also abstinent.

And many other things to back my views.


Hey saria231, thanks for posting your opinions. They are educational.

Could you explain more why your inability to not have children, your sexual choice (abstinence), and your father's abuse of your mother is part of your reason for being prolife?

Thank you!


I was raped when I was 12, and it caused me to become sterile. It's a reason I'm prolife because I see women who can have babies throw them away without hesitation when I would kill to have babies. Not literally, but you know what I mean.

Actually, I have been abstinent for about a year and a half. It is just a personal choice I made for myself to stop having sex. Fortunately, my man supported me in my choice and we are still happy today. : )

The main reason I'm prolife, is because of my mommy. I have seen her in the worst places and in the worst conditions, because she protected me no matter what. I know for a fact, she would give her life to better or keep mine safe. I have been in situations where I thought my father was going to kill her, and she never thought once about not keeping me safe. She has fought so hard for me, and I owe her my life. I know without her, and her love for me, I would have nothing. Absolutely nothing.


Thanks for responding. I'm sorry about your rape, that must've been terribly, terribly traumatic. Sad

I could not disagree more with your opinions, though! Very
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Sounds like AyaMiyaki summarized what I was thinking so I'll let it rest.
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Posted: 06-12-08 15:49pm

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So you believe others shouldn't be legally allowed to have safe abortions performed by doctors because YOU can't have children? What do you have to do with them? Do you even know these women?

What does your abstinance have to do with other women getting abortions?

Your mother sounds like a brave woman. Your mother had a choice, and she made the choice to protect you. Other women might decide that the best choice for THEIR unplanned pregnancy by an abuser is to abort. Whether you agree with that choice, or whether she is willing or able to do what your mother did, is irrelevant. Your mother was free to choose, and so should every other woman.


No, I don't think that just because I can't have kids that abortion should be illegal. Don't twist my words. I look at pregnancy as a gift. Not an infection. And that's how children are being treated. The baby can not be wanted by the parent, but still be wanted at the same time. It's a reason I AM prolife.

You contradicted yourself there. You talk about not letting a man have a choice in abortion, and yet you see it to be fine for a man to have a choice if he is abusive. I don't understand that. Could you clarify?

I stated I was abstinent because people were being cornered because of that one fact.

There is one thing you don't know about my mother. She didn't have a choice. Because she never have and never will consider killing her child as an alternative to pregnancy. Is motherhood really that scary?

My mom made it work. No questions asked.
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Posted: 06-12-08 15:58pm

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No, I don't think that just because I can't have kids that abortion should be illegal. Don't twist my words.


I didn't twist anything. You said that you are pro-life because you are sterile and can't have kids. I asked you why your inability to have kids should affect other people who DON'T want kids.

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I look at pregnancy as a gift. Not an infection.


Good for you. Others do not share that opinion.

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And that's how children are being treated. The baby can not be wanted by the parent, but still be wanted at the same time. It's a reason I AM prolife.


If the mother doesn't want to continue the pregnancy, it doesn't matter who else wants it. The mother is NOT a breeding machine for other people, and unless she makes the decision to continue the pregnancy, it's nobody's business whether she gets an abortion. You wanting a baby has nothing to do with her deciding to get an abortion.

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You contradicted yourself there. You talk about not letting a man have a choice in abortion, and yet you see it to be fine for a man to have a choice if he is abusive. I don't understand that. Could you clarify?


I didn't say anything of the sort. Quote me where I said anything like that. The man is not pregnant, therefore he has no choice in whether his partner has an abortion. I didn't say a word about a man's choice.

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I stated I was abstinent because people were being cornered because of that one fact. Try doing that to me.


You listed your abstinence as a reason why you're pro-life. Naturally people are curious what your abstinance has to do with abortion.

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There is one thing you don't know about my mother. She didn't have a choice. Because she never have and never will consider killing her child as an alternative to pregnancy. Is motherhood really that scary?

My mom made it work. No questions asked.


And that's fine for your mother... but she DID have a choice. She could have dropped you off at an orphanage. Whether she could live with that decision or not is irrelevant... she had the CHOICE. People have the choice whether to run over puppies with their cars, or whether to molest children. Most people would never dream of doing these things, but they have the choice to do, or not do, them.

And yes, for many women, motherhood is terrifying. Pregnancy horrifies them, birth disgusts them, and they have absolutely no ambitions of becoming a parent.
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Posted: 06-12-08 16:03pm

Birch wrote:
saria231 wrote:
Birch wrote:
saria231 wrote:
Um.........the above is.....interesting.... hehe

My reasons for being Prolife are simply because:

*It is against my religious beliefs. In the bible, it says that God hates the shedding of innocent blood.

*I believe that you can't be pro choice without taking choices from other people.

*My doctors and my father wanted me to be aborted and my father actually tried to by beating the crap out of my mother.

*I can't have kids of my own.

*My mom was pretty much on her deathbed when she was having both my younger sister (12) and my brother(9), and she told the doctors to save them instead of her if that time came where that choice had to be made. Fortunately, she is still here, letting me gray her hair. : )

*I am also abstinent.

And many other things to back my views.


Hey saria231, thanks for posting your opinions. They are educational.

Could you explain more why your inability to not have children, your sexual choice (abstinence), and your father's abuse of your mother is part of your reason for being prolife?

Thank you!


I was raped when I was 12, and it caused me to become sterile. It's a reason I'm prolife because I see women who can have babies throw them away without hesitation when I would kill to have babies. Not literally, but you know what I mean.

Actually, I have been abstinent for about a year and a half. It is just a personal choice I made for myself to stop having sex. Fortunately, my man supported me in my choice and we are still happy today. : )

The main reason I'm prolife, is because of my mommy. I have seen her in the worst places and in the worst conditions, because she protected me no matter what. I know for a fact, she would give her life to better or keep mine safe. I have been in situations where I thought my father was going to kill her, and she never thought once about not keeping me safe. She has fought so hard for me, and I owe her my life. I know without her, and her love for me, I would have nothing. Absolutely nothing.


Thanks for responding. I'm sorry about your rape, that must've been terribly, terribly traumatic. Sad

I could not disagree more with your opinions, though! Very
Happy

Sounds like AyaMiyaki summarized what I was thinking so I'll let it rest.


It was, but everything happens for a reason. And I could have come out a lot worse off, but I didn't, which makes me thankful.

That brings up another point I stand for. Mentioning babies being innocent from before, I don't neccesarily think that raped women should abort. I know, I know, all the prochoicers are freaking out asking what the heck I'm thinking, right? I think those babies are innocent, and shouldn't be punished because of such a terrible thing. When my older sister was 16, (she's now 31) she was raped and became pregnant with my nehpew. She didn't blame him for what happened to her. She accepted him as a beautiful thing that came out of a bad situation. That's how I think children should be treated at times like those. That's just my opinion.
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Posted: 06-12-08 16:33pm

Abortion isn't about punishment.

And while your sister might have believed her pregnancy was something beautiful that came out of something horrible, other rape victims might see their pregnancy as a constant reminder of their assault. These women weren't given the choice to have sex with their attackers. They at least deserve the choice of whether to continue a pregnancy created from rape.
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Posted: 06-13-08 06:47am

AyaMiyaki wrote:
So you believe others shouldn't be legally allowed to have safe abortions performed by doctors because YOU can't have children? What do you have to do with them? Do you even know these women?

What does your abstinance have to do with other women getting abortions?

Your mother sounds like a brave woman. Your mother had a choice, and she made the choice to protect you. Other women might decide that the best choice for THEIR unplanned pregnancy by an abuser is to abort. Whether you agree with that choice, or whether she is willing or able to do what your mother did, is irrelevant. Your mother was free to choose, and so should every other woman.
a choice is an inherent ability that cannot be controlled by external forces. the term "pro-choice" is a meaningless expression used to brainwash the masses to accept something that is morally wrong. that being pro-abortion. the notion that legalized abortion is moral because a minute fraction of the millions of lives lost resulted from incest or rape is absurd. are you defending the jewish holocaust because the jews are less important the the nazis. are you defending the chinese holocaust because the chinese are less important than the japanese. are you defending the abortion holocaust because children are inferior to their mothers. every single person that is alive on this planet earth is here because their mother did not have an abortion. therefor only a hateful hypocrite is capable of supporting abortion.
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antirise wrote:
the term "pro-choice" is a meaningless expression used to brainwash the masses to accept something that is morally wrong. that being pro-abortion.


This logic is the fuzziest of all fuzzy logic. Brainwashing someone into making their own reproductive choice isn't possible. You can brainwash a person to choose what YOU want them to choose but there is no brainwashing involved in supporting independent thought and personal choice. I support your right to choose to be sexist, for example.

antirise wrote:
the notion that legalized abortion is moral because a minute fraction of the millions of lives lost resulted from incest or rape is absurd.


The notion that abortion is immoral because you believe an insentient fetus should have more rights than any born person is what's absurd, especially when the fetus was put into the woman's body against her will. If you want to discuss dehumanizing people let's talk about the fact that you advocate for women and ONLY women to have their bodies used against their will for the benefit of an undeveloped human that can't even appreciate being granted the special right to use another person's organs.

antirise wrote:
are you defending the jewish holocaust because the jews are less important the the nazis. are you defending the chinese holocaust because the chinese are less important than the japanese. are you defending the abortion holocaust because children are inferior to their mothers.


I'm defending women from being dehumanized and used as breeding fodder by people like yourself that see them as expendable. Are you really trying to make a comparison between the deliberate attempted extinction of an entire race of fully sentient men, women and children to a woman choosing not to carry a pregnancy to term? You might as well compare the people the died in these slaughters to amoebas. Shameful on your part.

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every single person that is alive on this planet earth is here because their mother did not have an abortion. therefor only a hateful hypocrite is capable of supporting abortion.


Every single person that is alive on this planet is here because a woman somewhere either chose to or was forced to give birth. Those that are here because of the former can take comfort that they are loved by their mothers without a doubt, unlike those that were products of forced incubation and birth.

Only a hateful hypocrite is capable of advocating reproductive enslavement for women.
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Posted: 06-13-08 08:50am

Darkmoon wrote:
antirise wrote:
the term "pro-choice" is a meaningless expression used to brainwash the masses to accept something that is morally wrong. that being pro-abortion.


This logic is the fuzziest of all fuzzy logic. Brainwashing someone into making their own reproductive choice isn't possible. You can brainwash a person to choose what YOU want them to choose but there is no brainwashing involved in supporting independent thought and personal choice. I support your right to choose to be sexist, for example.

antirise wrote:
the notion that legalized abortion is moral because a minute fraction of the millions of lives lost resulted from incest or rape is absurd.


The notion that abortion is immoral because you believe an insentient fetus should have more rights than any born person is what's absurd, especially when the fetus was put into the woman's body against her will. If you want to discuss dehumanizing people let's talk about the fact that you advocate for women and ONLY women to have their bodies used against their will for the benefit of an undeveloped human that can't even appreciate being granted the special right to use another person's organs.

antirise wrote:
are you defending the jewish holocaust because the jews are less important the the nazis. are you defending the chinese holocaust because the chinese are less important than the japanese. are you defending the abortion holocaust because children are inferior to their mothers.


I'm defending women from being dehumanized and used as breeding fodder by people like yourself that see them as expendable. Are you really trying to make a comparison between the deliberate attempted extinction of an entire race of fully sentient men, women and children to a woman choosing not to carry a pregnancy to term? You might as well compare the people the died in these slaughters to amoebas. Shameful on your part.

antirise wrote:
every single person that is alive on this planet earth is here because their mother did not have an abortion. therefor only a hateful hypocrite is capable of supporting abortion.


Every single person that is alive on this planet is here because a woman somewhere either chose to or was forced to give birth. Those that are here because of the former can take comfort that they are loved by their mothers without a doubt, unlike those that were products of forced incubation and birth.

Only a hateful hypocrite is capable of advocating reproductive enslavement for women.
a choice is an inherent ability that cannot be controlled by external forces. any thinking person is capable of choosing anything. any person can choose to fly to the moon. whether or not the flying to the moon is capable of being obtained or not is the only thing that can be controlled and that is not a choice that is a spaceship. how on earth is calling something absurd advocating it? i would never advocate any elective medical procedure that involves the destruction of another human. thats not what the medical profession is suppose to do thats what soldiers are suppose to do
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[quote="antrise a choice is an inherent ability that cannot be controlled by external forces. any thinking person is capable of choosing anything. any person can choose to fly to the moon. whether or not the flying to the moon is capable of being obtained or not is the only thing that can be controlled and that is not a choice that is a spaceship. how on earth is calling something absurd advocating it? i would never advocate any elective medical procedure that involves the destruction of another human. thats not what the medical profession is suppose to do thats what soldiers are suppose to do[/quote]

Choice is what affects us everyday, not just in the abortion field but as well as our freedom of choice.

Sometimes in life you are thrown choices you dont agree with but you have to pick the lesser evils. To deny anyone a choice in life is deny your own, why should you have the choice to work, the choice to speak, the choice to be with whom you want. I advocate choice because I believe in freedom, maybe I am an anarchist but the point being it is only morally wrong to those who see it so...

REALITY DOESNT EXIST, sorry to break your bubble, it is what WE as people make of it, therefore no one has forced their opinion to make me think abortion is wrong but you are forcing your opinions. Tell yourself in the mirror you should be sterilized and have no rights, when you are capable of doing that in regards to all your life, then you can tell me what it feels like.

Woman are coerced into sex, funny not all of us for me its recreational but SEX IS NOT JUST PROCREATIONAL.

So z/e/fs are superior to a mother.......PLEASE EXPLAIN

I want you to answer a question and no sidetracking..

A Mother cant be superior but a z/e/f can be more superior? So with that being said how can two human live cojoined if it is not wanted?

Last time I checked when I was in an abusive relationship I had the freedom to leave.

What I find ironic is that pro-life likes to make choice but only when it applys to their betterment, that is my problem with pro-life and not the minority.
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[quote="antrise a choice is an inherent ability that cannot be controlled by external forces. any thinking person is capable of choosing anything. any person can choose to fly to the moon. whether or not the flying to the moon is capable of being obtained or not is the only thing that can be controlled and that is not a choice that is a spaceship. how on earth is calling something absurd advocating it? i would never advocate any elective medical procedure that involves the destruction of another human. thats not what the medical profession is suppose to do thats what soldiers are suppose to do


Choice is what affects us everyday, not just in the abortion field but as well as our freedom of choice.

Sometimes in life you are thrown choices you dont agree with but you have to pick the lesser evils. To deny anyone a choice in life is deny your own, why should you have the choice to work, the choice to speak, the choice to be with whom you want. I advocate choice because I believe in freedom, maybe I am an anarchist but the point being it is only morally wrong to those who see it so...

REALITY DOESNT EXIST, sorry to break your bubble, it is what WE as people make of it, therefore no one has forced their opinion to make me think abortion is wrong but you are forcing your opinions. Tell yourself in the mirror you should be sterilized and have no rights, when you are capable of doing that in regards to all your life, then you can tell me what it feels like.

Woman are coerced into sex, funny not all of us for me its recreational but SEX IS NOT JUST PROCREATIONAL.

So z/e/fs are superior to a mother.......PLEASE EXPLAIN

I want you to answer a question and no sidetracking..

A Mother cant be superior but a z/e/f can be more superior? So with that being said how can two human live cojoined if it is not wanted?

Last time I checked when I was in an abusive relationship I had the freedom to leave.

What I find ironic is that pro-life likes to make choice but only when it applys to their betterment, that is my problem with pro-life and not the minority.[/quote] the vast majority of women have no problem giving birth to several children and living long afterwards. the vast majority of women don't become pregnant because they were coerced into a relationship that they did not want. the vast majority of women are self centered and lazy if an abortion is easily obtained they have no qualms about obtaining one if an abortion is difficult to obtain they have no qualms about birth. making abortion legal because that is what a few digruntled women so desperately want can only lead too a landslide of lazy self centered women obtaining abortions who otherwise would have given birth. and that is a travesty that needs to be rectfied.
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Posted: 06-13-08 11:50am

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the vast majority of women have no problem giving birth to several children and living long afterwards. the vast majority of women don't become pregnant because they were coerced into a relationship that they did not want. the vast majority of women are self centered and lazy if an abortion is easily obtained they have no qualms about obtaining one if an abortion is difficult to obtain they have no qualms about birth. making abortion legal because that is what a few digruntled women so desperately want can only lead too a landslide of lazy self centered women obtaining abortions who otherwise would have given birth. and that is a travesty that needs to be rectfied.


Self-centered..I love that word.

We are all born Selfish, the difference is on if we give or not...

A mother brings a child into this world knowing she cant afford it EMOTIONALLY, PHYSICALLY or even FINANCIALLY

THAT IS SELFISH

Kids are brought into this world for selfish reasons Antrise

People want to add to their family
Girls expect men to come back into their lives
Girls want to play dress-up etc etc
So if having an abortion is selfish or even giving birth let me ask you this

Selfish=selfish
There is no differrence

Sex is healthy and has been proved by science that is also recreational as it relieves stress.

I made the choice to be a parent but I also made the choice to have an abortion and that was my choice to make. I am not going to bring another kid into this world to make it suffer, common sense!

Oh btw its not just disgruntled woman, the men in my family are all PRO-choice..

I come from a family of 6 kids and my mother comes from a family of 10, equal amount of men and we are all pro-choice!


Lazy....Taking responsibility isnt laziness, we have to work to pay our bills no one else does, thats our world for you.
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Posted: 06-13-08 12:10pm

Abortion isn't 'walk into a clinic, take a pill, walk out'. It takes a lot out of a woman, so calling a woman 'lazy' for getting one makes me believe you're not informed on how they work.

I completely agree with you diamondsz, it's selfish to get an abortion. But it's also selfish to bring a child into the world when it can't be raised properly. So either way, the woman is selfish if she choses what to do with the baby.
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Posted: 06-13-08 12:40pm

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the vast majority of women have no problem giving birth to several children and living long afterwards.


So what? Just because a woman CAN do something doesn't mean she should be forced to. Especially if that something can physically injure or kill her.

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the vast majority of women are self centered and lazy if an abortion is easily obtained they have no qualms about obtaining one if an abortion is difficult to obtain they have no qualms about birth.


It is precisely because I am NOT lazy that I would obtain an abortion by any means necessary. I work hard and play hard, and no parasite will be allowed to slow me down.

By the by, given how much you seem to dislike women, have you considered turning gay or becoming a hermit? Laughing
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Posted: 06-13-08 12:58pm

Snug wrote:
antrise wrote:

the vast majority of women have no problem giving birth to several children and living long afterwards.


So what? Just because a woman CAN do something doesn't mean she should be forced to. Especially if that something can physically injure or kill her.



Exactly. I can either jump off the little bridge or the really high bridge. Personally, I'd rather risk less injury and jump off the little bridge. Or avoid the bridges all together (I think that's a good example of abortion, birth and abstinence Smile )
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