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Problem with cigarettes Posted: 04-04-08 12:33pm
Cigarettes are very against my beliefs.
When my fiance and I first started dating
he understood this and quit, without me
asking and I was very grateful. Recently,
about a month ago, we found out we're
going to be having a baby in October.
Yesterday I found a pack of cigarettes in
his car, and he told me they were a
friends. I KNEW he was lying, I can read
him like a book. SO, not only is he
smoking again (for a month now, is what
he's told me- great timing right?) but he
lied to my face. My trust for him is
broken, though this is the biggest problem
we've ever had. I feel extremely hurt,
what should I do?
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slamdunk
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Posted: 05-28-08 14:04pm
what you should do is not over react.
maybe he was feeling stress about the new
baby, and knew you wouldn't like it so he
hid it. he was concerned and at least
didn't do it in front of you. don't let
something so small interfear with your
relationship if that is your biggest
problem so far, you are doing good!!! just
talk to him about it and hear his side to.
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slamdunk
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 May 2008 Posts: 14
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Posted: 05-28-08 14:04pm
what you should do is not over react.
maybe he was feeling stress about the new
baby, and knew you wouldn't like it so he
hid it. he was concerned and at least
didn't do it in front of you. don't let
something so small interfear with your
relationship if that is your biggest
problem so far, you are doing good!!! just
talk to him about it and hear his side to.
