My boyfriend wants to climax inside and I
am hesitant to let him. I am on a low dose
birth control pill, but am hesitant to let
him because there is still a small chance
of getting pregnant (BCP is 98%
effective). He hates wearing a condom and
I just happen to be on the pill because of
irregular menstruation. Am I being
unreasonable or is it normal for men to
climax inside if the woman is on the pill?
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annitabonita
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Joined: 21 Jun 2008 Posts: 7 Location: New Orleans, LA
I'm with you Posted: 06-21-08 06:12am
I'm using the birth control patch and I
would still never let my boyfriend climax
inside of me. We had sex without condoms
once and he didn't finish in me and I
still freaked out until my period came.
It's really all about what makes YOU
comfortable. I know I'm definately not.
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GiRo
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Posted: 06-21-08 16:41pm
If the problem is in the condom..
He can simply not use condom, but instead
of ejaculating inside your body he does it
I don't know.. over your body or in your
mouth xD!!!
It's what me and my boyfriend are going to
do next year when we first meet!
he doesn't cum inside you, so it doesn't
matter, you don't need a condom,
especially not with pills to protect you!
=3
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flipper
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Posted: 06-22-08 16:03pm
I think you should never do something that
you don't feel 100% right about. If
you're afraid of getting pregnant, ask
your boyfriend how badly he wants to be a
daddy. lol. Could thinner condoms be an
option?
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worrywart01
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Posted: 06-22-08 17:02pm
eh i've always had sort of an issue with
this as well...make sure you think it
through bc once you let your bf go all the
way it'll be harder tryin to get him to go
BACK to doing anything else...i'm on b.c.
as well and I was paranoid like u, for a
while he did not finish inside of me but
now I let him...I too get worried every
time its "that" time of the month(which is
actually supposed to be in 2 days)
anyway..i've mentioned jokingly that we
should go back to condoms and he is sooo
NOT for it...i hate them too..they
irritate me...so it really just depends on
your comfort level with the pills...if u
take them correctly they're 99%
effective...is it worth it to you to take
that 1% chance? i'm starting to rethink my
situation...i'm thinkin about talkin to
him about finishing OUTside..just to ease
my mind alittle bit more
