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maxers
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Pull out pre-cum pregnancy
Posted: 03-10-08 02:46am
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hi everybody!
i posted on here a while ago so iono if
you all remember me but hello again.
anyways ive been out of town for about a
month and when i got back my g/f and i
were so happy to see eachother that we had
unprotected sex without really even
thinking about it, now were regreting it.
i did pull out and i do know about pre-cum
and thats why we are worried. at the time
we had sex my g/f had just gotten off her
period the day before and she says that
her chance of being pregnant is far less
than usual. is what she says true? i know
a few women who have gotten pregnant the
day after her period but thats because her
partner came inside her and didnt pull out
in time...any advice would be great,
THANKS!!!
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benc152
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Posted: 03-10-08 03:47am
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condoms condoms condoms comdoms condoms
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mominashoe
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Posted: 03-10-08 08:20am
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I don't know why she would say that.
Women can get pregnant at any time in
their cycle....even the ones that have it
all mapped out and think they know
everything about how their calendar is and
have their timing down can mess up.....
It can be very unpredictable. Not to make
you more nervous about it.
You'll just have to wait and take a test
if she's missed her period. The chances a
slimmer if she just finished her period,
because usually ovulation takes place 2
weeks before the period starts, but it's
not set in stone.....she could have many
different scenarios here.
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Posted: 03-10-08 09:54am
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Okay hun I only have one question... if
you two are un willing or "not thinking
about it" when it comes to using
condoms... why not atleats have her on
Birth Control? Or get the Depo shot she
wont even have to think about it??
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Posted: 03-10-08 15:07pm
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Technically, if she ovulates around 14
days after her first day of her period,
which is typically, but not always, when
the majority (but not all) of women
ovulate, she's right. She is less likely
to get pregnant the day after her period
than, say, a few days or a week later.
Less likely doesn't mean not possible,
though, because we can't be sure when she
ovulates.
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maxers
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Posted: 03-10-08 21:21pm
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yea i know we should have used condoms but
at the time i didnt have any and we were
just so excited to see each other that we
just well went at it lol. she is going on
BC this week fyi...anyways i was reading
though that pre-cum does not have any
sperm in it unless the man had previously
ejaculated earlier but if he urinates
after ejaculation, it washes the excess
sperm out of the urethra, i urinated
before we did it so if this fact is true
then the pre-cum had no sperm ...ive read
this on a few websites but is it really a
true fact?
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Posted: 03-10-08 21:36pm
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I have read research which states exactly
as you have said, and I have not seen any
that contradicts it.
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maxers
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Posted: 03-10-08 22:07pm
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well then my g/f and i should be ok
because i am 99.9% positive that i pulled
out in time and if what i said is true my
pre-cum did not have any sperm in it, im
not saying were fully out of the clear but
our chances of her being pregnant are very
slim...if anybody has any info that
contradicts what i said please post the
information
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benc152
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Posted: 03-11-08 01:17am
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if she's going on birth control and is
pregnant isn't that going to be really
bad?
(that might be a dumb question but i'm a
guy =P i know nothing about that kind of
thing other than girls are well angry when
on it XD)
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Posted: 03-11-08 11:21am
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She won't start taking the pills until she
has her period - so its all good.
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maxers
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Posted: 03-12-08 00:53am
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so do you guys think her chances of being
pregnant are slim or should we
worry??...she cant take plan b cause it
has already been over 3 days so that
option is out of the question just fyi
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Ingi
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Posted: 03-12-08 09:49am
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maxers, there is no way for us to know how
risky your personal chance is. You'll have
to wait for her period to start. I suggest
investing in birth control. It is WAY
cheaper than dealing with this kind of
worry.
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Posted: 03-12-08 17:15pm
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You should get some plan b if its still
within 72 hours of you having sex.
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maxers
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Posted: 03-14-08 00:05am
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actually if u read in my last post its to
late for her to take plan b...well she is
planning on getting on bc next week but
were thinkin of wating till her next
period since bc can cause missed periods,
do you guys think we should do this or do
you think that her gettin on bc next week
is a good idea?....im sorry for such
stupid questions, my g/f and i are just
really nervous and we dont really know who
to ask about this 
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PenguinsRus
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Posted: 03-14-08 09:28am
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As long as she isn't pregnant, you can go
on BC whenever you want essentially. If
you are worried about having unprotected
sex before then, you should get on it
sooner rather than later. Also, make sure
that during the first week of her pills
you still use condoms because she isn't
fully protected until after a full week of
pills.
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Posted: 03-15-08 16:57pm
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it seems none of you are that concerned
about pregnancy if you were there would be
some sort of birth control if u 2 are
gonna be this worried sort it out rather
than messing with a poor unborn child go
to connextion or family plannin even
doctors give condoms out free
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