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babygirl24

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ready for marriage ? Posted: 05-25-08 21:45pm


how do you know when your ready for marrige, i feel like im ready the guy im wit is super nice and i trust him.but im young i honestly dont want to wait and i have been wit him for only six months. im scared to tell my mom because honestly money wise were not ready.but love wise and commentment wise we both are.the scary thing though my firend try to make it sink into me that hes not always going to be commented and hell cheat on me.(because of their past experince).and most guy cheat on thier girls in high schol.so it kinda does get to me will comment back please for advice.

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Posted: 05-27-08 22:16pm


first of all how old are you?sounds like your in high school. from my experiance...no one is serious about anything in high school. you go to school, have personal drama, screw around like rabbits, have a good time,your trying to find out who you are, trying to get your homework done, go to college. etc etc youve been with the guy only 6 months right? and you guys are already thinking about marriage??you are deffiantely not ready, and if your not careful you might just end up pregnant. and thats even worst cause then your gonna have to take care of yourself and your kid. im 24 and my boyfriend is 23, weve known each other for 4 years but have been officially together for 1 1/2 years. and we dont even talk about marriage!lol he doesnt want to get married and have kids till were 30 and thats fine with me, cause i really dont want kids right now. you have to grow up physically and mentally when it comes to things like this. take the advice my mom gave me, dont become another statistic

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Posted: 05-28-08 10:49am


I agree with the previous poster. If your in high school I suggest waiting to think about marriage. 6 months is also a very short time to build a strong enought relationship thats even ready for marriage. Stay together and enjoy being free for awhile. Theres no need to rush into marriage. See where your relationship takes you. You may be together forever but theres a chance that you might not.

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Posted: 05-28-08 10:54am


oh yes...6 months seems like a long time, trust me...it really isn't enough time to be jumping into marriage...At 4 months with my boyfriend now I thought I knew him, but we will have been together 2 years in june and i'm still learning things about him....6 months is too soon, if you are really THAT serious and do want to spend the rest of your lives together, i always say, why rush it...theres plenty of time..and if you "KNOW" that you do want to be together..then its smarter to wait until you guys have been together for longer...plus as you said the money situtation is not good...well...wait until it is...why rush into something like that

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