I am so unhappy in my relationship. I
fight with him all the time about stupid
little things. He blames me for not being
the person I used to be. It is nothing
but crazy. I have been with him about 11
years and have an engagement ring. I have
a feeling he is cheating on me. I have
some evidence but it is not rock solid. I
also confronted him about it and the
evidence was dismissed. This is the
evidence:I happened to get some emails and
photos of some naked girl and a letter of
what they happened to do together. They
were sent from my fiances email address.
He claims a hacker got into his email.
Weird messages were sent to a friend of
his too. I saw them and yet I just do not
know what to believe. I no longer trust
him. I wish I could belive him and he was
nowhere in the pics. Is it just a joke?
I am really hurt by this and can not let
it go. We are having other problems too.
He is distant and gets a lot of cell call
lately. I think he is not loyal.
Help..... I can not do this anymore. I
would also like some break up adviseor any
opinions. Thank you
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Fairy Godmother
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RUN < RUN <RUN Posted: 08-29-08 20:23pm
Here's Your Sign. Run as fast as your
little legs will carry you. Trust makes a
relationship and when that trust is
broken, after 11 years...I'd stay throw in
the towel. You deserve way more and are
not obviously getting it. Hacker my
ass....the cell phoens calls
alone.......if you want real proof, wait
til he's asleep and check his phone
records.....recent incomng and out going
calls..........I would not waste my time,
I'd be packed up and gone! Too many other
wonderful guys out htere who would
appreciate you! You asked. I'm telling
what I think!
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Posted: 08-29-08 20:39pm
Fairy Godmother has spoken, therefore I
would do as she says.
Trust is a big factor in any relationship
and if you can't trust him and you
continue to believe his stories, excuse
after excuse...he will continue to betray
you and feed you lie after lie. I
seriously doubt a hacker did that. Why
would someone target him or his friend?
He may try to keep you from leaving, don't
listen to him...you deserve so much better
and you have lost 11 years of trust and I
would not give him one more minute of you
to manipulate...his loss, your gain
(freedom and self respect)
Listen to your instincts, slam the door
behind you and don't look back. Be
strong.
