I just lost my virginity with my long time
girlfriend last night, and it went badly
(I'm 19). For some stupid reason, I
couldn't find her vagina and was poking
around for a couple of minutes down there.
Also, I kept losing my erection, possibly
due to frustration? Anyways, once we
started having sex, I only lasted about
four-five minutes, and she showed no signs
of enjoyment. Was your first time this
bad, or am I just bad?
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worrywart01
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Posted: 05-18-08 20:51pm
you were just nervous, don't let that ruin
it for good for you, just try to be
comfortable with her and i'm sure you'll
be fine next time...maybe if you cant find
"it" she can help you out next time
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marvel
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Posted: 05-20-08 08:50am
Was it her first time as well? Because the
experience might not have been that
pleasant for her just because of that
fact. As long as you two are patient and
trusting with each other, it'll only get
better!
Also, you could turn your inexperience
into something fun.... let her teach you
what feels good for her... same with you.
You can teach each other and learn what
feels the best. It can be very intimate
and a great bonding experience.
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Unifier
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Posted: 06-04-08 12:16pm
don't be embarrassed.. shoot round there
asap and have another go.. COMMUNICATE!
"is this good for you?" "do you like
this?" be accommodating and you will feel
better and less stressed! if you think you
are going to shoot early then start
thinking about less sexual things like
counting etc.
be playful not serious enjoy the time you
guys are having ;]
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2eatoria
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 05 Jun 2008 Posts: 32
Posted: 06-07-08 20:32pm
I think the first time is always bad for
everybody.
"I just want to put the head in, to see
what it looks like."
I can't BELIEVE she bought that line.
Three seconds later, oops.
At least I didn't bang her head on the
headboard.
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unnamedny
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Joined: 31 Dec 2007 Posts: 93 Location: New York, USA
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Posted: 06-13-08 20:16pm
All I can tell you that It wasn't as bad
as mime, so you have nothing to worry
about. All you need is a little practice
