Reasons I can't get PREGNANT ? Posted: 04-07-08 11:47am
I have trying to concieve for about 1 yr
now.I had an implanon in my arm and had it
removed in july07, we were told we were
most firtile 2wks after the implanon was
removed NO LUCK!!! Still trying I had a
period on March 10th 08....then I started
spotting on March 28th pink the some red
not a lot because I normally have heavy
period but it wasnt time for my period. I
am always regular 28-29 day cycle. I am
due a period April 6th Im not goin to
start I know it because I was spotting 6
days. My Husband and I made love on the
day I was supposed to ovulate which was
easter sunday. Could I be pregnant and If
what could be wrong?
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PenguinsRus
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Posted: 04-07-08 12:10pm
It takes the average couple one year to
conceive, so although it seems like its
been forever, its still possible you are
both completely fertile and just haven't
managed to get lucky yet. However, if it
doesn't work this time and you are
worried, at this point it is okay to get
in to see a fertility specialist. They
can test the both of you and see if
anything is wrong and they can recommend
methods to help the two of you to become
pregnant. Good luck on your quest; I hope
you get a BFP!
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krystineM
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Posted: 04-07-08 17:57pm
Stress plays a factor as to why it takes
longer to get pregnant.
Here's a story:
My teacher told us about how one of her
friends who are married, were trying to
have a baby for about a year or a little
more. They did all the things the doctor
told them to do, still no luck. So, they
decided that they would adopt a baby
instead. So the day comes, they get their
new baby girl and love her so much, and
things are going pretty well. A year
passes, and she gets pregnant with her
husband!
Why? Because there was not so much stress
or pressure on having a child, and they
were relaxed and calm now and it just
happened.
If your stressing yourself out and putting
yourself down as to why you aren't
concieving right away, that plays a role,
and if our partner is stressed out too,
that plays a role as to why things are
working.
Try being relaxed, and dont even try to
have a baby, and it may just happen on its
own.
I hope that was a little helpful for you.
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cleigh11
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Posted: 04-14-08 11:12am
thanks so much for your inputs. i think i
ovulated on the 11th so i dunno whats
wrong with me. i need to make a doc apt.
has anyone herd of clomid? my friend told
me to get on that. but i was it to be
natural no help. i i will do whatever it
takes. i feel like all the people that i
am surrounded by are concieving except me.
I dont have a lot of stress in my life we
are a regular happy couple. Does anyone
know what an implanon is? i had one in my
arm for a year and i think that could have
messed me up. But i have a regular 28-29
day cycle. i had a miscarrage about 2
years ago so i think its possible for me
to concieve but who knows. Also i have
pains so bad when i am on my period i cant
walk and i use about 5 pads a day. i have
always had female trouble and my boobs
stay sore. My doctors say im fine and i
know im not.
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Ingi
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Posted: 04-14-08 11:29am
Yes, implanon is birth control and it can
take your body awhile to adjust after
coming off of any birth control.
You said you got the implant removed in
July so you've been trying for 7 months.
Have you been charting and temping? As was
said earlier it takes the average couple
12 months to conceive. A doctor isn't
going to prescribe you clomid until you've
been trying for 1 year and have some
testing done.
Make an appointment with your doctor
anyway for a preconception physical, pap
smear, etc. You can discuss pregnancy with
him and what your best options are.
