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gonzogirl

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relaxing to orgasm ?
Posted: 07-04-08 19:09pm

So I'm kinda new to having sex. I have a hard time getting really wet when it used to be no problem before. Could this just be because I'm still not totally relaxed when we have sex yet? Also, when we're having sex, I feel like I'm about to orgasm (feel like I really REALLY have to pee, it's VERY uncomfortable). I can never actually orgasm though, I know I get really close, it just doesn't happen. Is there anything I can do to help myself? Or will it just get better as I relax a little more?
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Posted: 07-04-08 22:28pm

buy lube, that should solve one problem and relaxing should solve the other
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Posted: 07-05-08 21:12pm

i have the same problem... but i have yet to try lube
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gonzogirl

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Posted: 07-05-08 23:33pm

I'm glad I'm not alone then. We use lube but I'd rather if we didn't have to...
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Posted: 07-08-08 00:11am

Some women just don't get as wet as others. Nothing is wrong with using lube.

Do you masturbate? Finding out how to orgasm on your own and just knowing the feeling will help you get to that point during sex with your partner.
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