So I'm kinda new to having sex. I have a
hard time getting really wet when it used
to be no problem before. Could this just
be because I'm still not totally relaxed
when we have sex yet? Also, when we're
having sex, I feel like I'm about to
orgasm (feel like I really REALLY have to
pee, it's VERY uncomfortable). I can never
actually orgasm though, I know I get
really close, it just doesn't happen. Is
there anything I can do to help myself? Or
will it just get better as I relax a
little more?
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worrywart01
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Posted: 07-04-08 22:28pm
buy lube, that should solve one problem
and relaxing should solve the other
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moolo
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Joined: 04 Jul 2008 Posts: 3 Location: ,
Posted: 07-05-08 21:12pm
i have the same problem... but i have yet
to try lube
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gonzogirl
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Posted: 07-05-08 23:33pm
I'm glad I'm not alone then. We use lube
but I'd rather if we didn't have to...
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Maddie34
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Posted: 07-08-08 00:11am
Some women just don't get as wet as
others. Nothing is wrong with using lube.
Do you masturbate? Finding out how to
orgasm on your own and just knowing the
feeling will help you get to that point
during sex with your partner.