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Klynn

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Self-Conscientious and depressed....
Posted: 03-02-08 11:17am
Recently I have become more and more self-conscientious. I always hear my guy friends (and even my own boyfriend) talk about hot celebrities. I do not look anything like these stereotypical women and I cry every night because I feel fat and believe that I do not have large enough breasts to be a real woman. I don't know what to do, please help with some advice.
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Posted: 03-02-08 16:05pm
Do not base your self worth on celebrities (who are, more often than not, fake). I would suggest talking to your boyfriend about how you are feeling. If he is making you feel this way, he deserves to know. If he doesn't do anything about how he is making you feel, he is not worth your time.

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sonia_x

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you are beautiful!
Posted: 04-02-08 19:52pm
trust me...Why would u want to be anything but yourself?

Most celebrities are air brushed and covered in make up from head to foot...im very surprised that they still actually look human!

Dont be upset about what your guy mates and your boyfriend says...most guys are like that...Most fantasise about celebs but that is all it is...a fantasy

I can tell you love your boyfriend alot, Let me ask this question

if you really was fat and ugly, would your boyfriend be with you?

The answer is...he loves you. He must find you attractive and curvy otherwise he wouldnt be with you. Most guys fantasise about skinny models but in the real world, it is the curvy women they prefer with personalities..not stuck up famous people with child like figures. If it really is upsetting you so...speak to him about it. he probably doesnt realise how it is affecting you and your confidence.

dont worry about your figure and embrace your womanly curves!! yes

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i hope ive helped x x
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Posted: 04-02-08 22:58pm
Men can be very insensitive with the things they say and how they behave around women. Our society puts a great deal of stress on women to measure up to this ideal image of a woman. The image the media and Hollywood project is false - like smoke and mirrors. There are all kinds of tricks used by celebrities to enhance, alter and change how they look. When you see pictures of these women in everyday clothing, hair pulled back, most of them look like you and me - regular women. There is nothing wrong with that. Natural beauty really exudes from the inside outwards.

Your boyfriend may not be aware of how that makes you feel. My husband was insensitive early in our relationship. I told him how it made me feel inadequate. That was all it took. He didn't do the "guy thing" around me. Guys may look at women and comment and that may be their nature, however, they do not need to do it in the presence of their girlfriends. Let him know this is not ok with you and you would like him to abstain from doing that when he is with you. If he cares about you and how you feel this will not be a problem for him.

Go to the mirror as you get yourself ready in the morning. Tell yourself, outloud,
"I am beautiful, I am sexy, I am wonderful, I am ME". You will be surprised in just a few days how that will change how YOU feel but others will see you in that way. It does work. Just keep saying it over and over. The transformation from within will occur and others will see it on the outside. You are a women and virtue of your female form, YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL. Believe it and the world will see it.
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