Ok..so I had sex a few days ago. We used a
condom, but after he ejaculated he stayed
inside me for a long time while we just
cuddled and whatnot. Since a long time had
elapsed since he had ejaculated, he lost
his erection while still inside me. When
he pulled out the condom stayed inside me
more than halfway. I didnt really feel it
there at all. I put my clothes back on (in
the dark). My boyfriend turned the light
on and looked all over the bed for the
condom then jokingly suggested I look for
it inside me after we noticed a big wet
spot on the sheets (where the semen had
spilled out, we later figured). I stuck my
hand in my underwear and felt it so I
pulled it out carefully. My panties were
wet but that could've been from my own
fluids. I figured all the semen had
spilled out onto the sheets. I left my
underwear on because i didnt feel like
going commando in my pants. I felt
paranoid the whole morning after that when
i thought maybe some sperm went on my
panties then into my vagina or something
like that but then I started my period
that afternoon and became very relieved.
but being the overthinking person i am...i
had to find out if it was possible for my
period to start just because it was
already ready to start and not because i
wasnt pregnant. So do any of you know if
it's possible to get a period on the day
after you possibly became pregnant? I've
just never started a period the exact same
day after sex...and i've never had a
mishap like that. the condome always comes
out when he does even after losing the
erection.
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antigone
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Posted: 05-28-08 08:44am
Highly improbable that you are pregnant.
You got your period so you are not
ovulating. Have you considered going to
get some form of birth control? It will
truly ease the worry of getting pregnant
before you are ready for it. Why put
yourself through the roller coaster ride
of worry every month? Consider getting
birth control. It is not fool proof but
has better odds than just a condom.
Condoms are necessary to protect you from
STD's but are risky to prevent pregnancy.
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Maddie34
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Posted: 05-28-08 10:54am
If you're really worried about pregnancy
with either condoms or another form of
birthcontrol then why not use both? That
way you always know there's a back up
incase there's a problem like this or if
you were to mess up a bit with your pills.
It will really take the stress away so you
can actually enjoy having sex rather than
worrying about it.
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Maji
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Joined: 23 Sep 2007 Posts: 108 Location: ,
Posted: 05-28-08 15:05pm
yes I have been considering birth controll
pills for a while now and i actually have
an appointment set for today.
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unnamedny
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Posted: 05-28-08 21:19pm
It's almost impossible to get pregnant 3
days before the period and 3 days after
the period. Also google "sperm life". If
you are saying panties "then into my
vagina" it's also almost impossible that
you got pregnant. (if sperm does not go
directly into vagina it only lives for a
few second/minutes.)
