I've been sexually active with two
boyfriends now and have had sexual
intercourse a number of times with both
men. However it has never felt good! Most
of the time it just it sore on the outside
afterwards (almost like a rug burn). And
during it does not feel good! I've tried
everything, different positions, speeds
etc. It's becoming a problem with my
partner now because he feels he cannot
please me sexually. It is me? Is there
something wrong with me? Please if anyone
can help me. I really appreciate it.
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stickyicky
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 29 Dec 2007 Posts: 151 Location: jacksonville, tx usa
Posted: 07-20-08 21:35pm
Believe it or not, a lot of women "fake
orgasms." I've heard from a lot of people
that sex really isn't good to them unless
they love the one they're actually having
sex with; unless there is an actual true
connection...
I know you say they were both your
boyfriends, but do you actually love them?
Do you feel connected to them?
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Lilly Ivy
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 09 Aug 2007 Posts: 1514 Location: Moorefield, WV
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Posted: 07-21-08 01:26am
if it feels like you are getting rug burn,
I'd suggest some lube. There is no such
thing as too much lube