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Armstrc5c

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sex doesn't feel good
Posted: 07-20-08 21:20pm

I've been sexually active with two boyfriends now and have had sexual intercourse a number of times with both men. However it has never felt good! Most of the time it just it sore on the outside afterwards (almost like a rug burn). And during it does not feel good! I've tried everything, different positions, speeds etc. It's becoming a problem with my partner now because he feels he cannot please me sexually. It is me? Is there something wrong with me? Please if anyone can help me. I really appreciate it.
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stickyicky

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Posted: 07-20-08 21:35pm

Believe it or not, a lot of women "fake orgasms." I've heard from a lot of people that sex really isn't good to them unless they love the one they're actually having sex with; unless there is an actual true connection...

I know you say they were both your boyfriends, but do you actually love them? Do you feel connected to them?
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Lilly Ivy

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Posted: 07-21-08 01:26am

if it feels like you are getting rug burn, I'd suggest some lube. There is no such thing as too much lube Wink
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Sydney123456

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Posted: 07-21-08 01:32am

With the symptoms you've been explaning, I will give you this advice: get lube. Apply it whenever you need it during sex.

The fun thing about lube is that is comes in all types...to enhance sex for both YOU and YOUR PARTNER!

I would also spend a lot of time on foreplay (if you haven't been already). Women get dry mighty quick if foreplay isn't well done.

Good luck!
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ironicusername

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Posted: 07-23-08 23:30pm

is it not good, or is it painful?
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