Joined: 11 Mar 2008 Posts: 8 Location: Somewhere, KY USA
sex gets painful Posted: 05-04-08 17:44pm
The first 11 times I had sex, my cherry
didnt pop in ANY of those times, and the
sex was extremely painful...
And then when i started having sex with
the guy im with now [my fiance], he
finally popped my cherry during our 4th
time...
After that, sex was GREAT...
But then, I moved to where I am now, and I
only get to see him maybe once every
month...
And now sex is back to feeling like I'm a
virgin everytime...
The last time I came to visit him, we had
sex 5 times [I was there for day and a
half]
He's moving up here this summer, but I
have no idea if sex is gonna be as good
anymore, because i have no idea why it
hurts to begin with...
After about 5 minutes after we start
having sex, it feels okay, and then a
little bit later, it goes back to feeling
painful again, and we stop...
Just wondering if this happens to anyone
else besides me...
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elle2389
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Posted: 05-04-08 23:29pm
Been there,
Lube is the answer!
Stop having sex until you feel back to
normal. When the two of you start having
sex again, make sure to use lube before
(and during, if necessary!).
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mommyglamour
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Joined: 29 Apr 2008 Posts: 25
Posted: 05-05-08 01:55am
yea, and see if you can get him to go down
on you for atleast 30minutes to relax and
warm you up for it...then you might not
need any lube at all!
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Yorick
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Joined: 05 May 2008 Posts: 5
Posted: 05-05-08 06:29am
My wife used Sentia pills to be able to
have enough lube. Now she doesn't feel
pain during intercourse. She began feeling
orgasms.
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xXCupidXx
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Joined: 11 Mar 2008 Posts: 8 Location: Somewhere, KY USA
Posted: 05-05-08 11:28am
wow..thanks..lol...ill try that then...
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Yorick
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Joined: 05 May 2008 Posts: 5
Posted: 05-11-08 07:29am
Yea I know from my wife that Sentia is a
very popular supplement among women.
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joycyn.anderson
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Joined: 11 May 2008 Posts: 1
Allergic reaction and itching after intercourse Posted: 05-11-08 08:17am
I am 48 years old female. I was married
for 13 years. During the time of my 13
year marriage, when I was engaged in sex
with my husband, I was extremely
lubricated. I did not suffer from any
sexual pain or malfunction that I can
recall. In 2001 I became devorced and I
had an hystorectomy. I was not sexually
active after this surgery for about 7
years. In 2008, I met a very nice guy
friend. We have been sexually active.
Initially the sex was good, and still is.
However, one month into the relationship,
I have been having allergic reactions
after having sex. The sensation seems to
start in my vagina clitoris area, then it
goes all over my body and all my moist
areas. I get an itchy, prickly, warm,
pulsating irritated feeling all over my
skin. I have gotten a thorough checkup by
my OB-GYN, and my general practitioner has
given me a complete blood workup. All the
tests have come up well. I dont know what
to do. My friend is a really nice guy,
and he is a wonderful help to me. We are
planning to get married soon. However the
itching concerns I have almost everytime
we have sex has really puts a strain on
our relationship. I want to know if I am
too sensitive in my vagina and what I can
do to overcome this sensitivity.
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run4life10
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Posted: 05-11-08 23:21pm
Do you use condoms? If so, you may be
allergic to latex. Or if he comes inside
of you, you may be allergic to his semen.
When you say it's all over your skin, do
you mean everywhere?
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LeahBia07
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Joined: 23 May 2008 Posts: 3 Location: , DC!
Posted: 05-23-08 21:54pm
I kno exactly wut u mean. My fiance is
also distant from me. I c him once a
month. wen i do c him n we have sex it
feels like he's takin my virginity all
over again. I think its because u as well
as me, dont get any all the time so u
tighten back up. We will do it twice then
after tht it starts killin me and it takes
a few minutes just 2 get it n. I try 2
stay as lubed up as possible. Dont just
try 2 push thru the pain. i tried it and
got little cuts up there. ouch! not fun,
especially wen u pee! So just lube up it
really helps.
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LeahBia07
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Joined: 23 May 2008 Posts: 3 Location: , DC!
Help! Posted: 05-23-08 22:08pm
I am engaged and i dont get 2 c my fiance
2 often. Its like once a month. So wen i
do get 2 c him and we have sex, im fine
the 1st 2 or 3 times. After tht it starts
2 hurt, especially wen i pee, like i have
little cuts up there. W ut is
the best lube? Because i get UTIs very
easily and i need something tht wont cause
1. And also, how do i prevent myself from
getting a UTI after sex? cause it almost
always happens. Is there anythin i can do
other then going 2 the bathroom rite
after, and not letting him put it in my
butt then my vagina. I need 2 kno wut more
i can do???
ut is
the best lube? Because i get UTIs very
easily and i need something tht wont cause
1. And also, how do i prevent myself from
getting a UTI after sex? cause it almost
always happens. Is there anythin i can do
other then going 2 the bathroom rite
after, and not letting him put it in my
butt then my vagina. I need 2 kno wut more
i can do???