I have been sexually active for about
three-four years now (I'm 20, I started at
17) and no matter what I do, it still
seems to hurt and sometimes incredibly
bad.
I never had the experience of "popping a
cherry", there was never blood or anything
of that nature the first time, or even
times after that of having sex. The first
time I visited the gyno he refused to do a
pap smear because my hymen was intact,
even though I had already had sex at that
point. I assumed that was my problem up
until my next yearly visit, where a pap
smear was preformed, and the doctor made
no mention of my hymen still being
intact.
I just don't know what to do. It's not
that sex doesn't feel good, because
sometimes it does. But other times it's
just painful and I feel horrible because I
can't get into things for my partner
because I'm attempting to avoid the pain.
If anyone has any advice, please let me
know!
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technofan18
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Exercise might help. Posted: 03-05-08 14:37pm
You might need to exercise your penis.
Sometimes exercises like Jelqing, Kegeling
and all other sorts can help.
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technofan18
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I wasn't clearly thinking right.. Posted: 03-05-08 14:40pm
my mistake.. .I wasn't clearly thinking
right.. but, I was at a nother forum and
was thinking this was the one i was at i'm
sorry ,
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technofan18
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sorry to confuse you. Posted: 03-05-08 14:42pm
See, I was at a men's health forum in on a
nother website, and I obviously forgot to
open up the window, and I thought this was
the window..
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Re: Exercise might help. Posted: 03-05-08 15:01pm
It's alright, I'll just report your posts
as off topic, okay? Re-post if you have
any advice!
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Re: Sex Still Hurts Posted: 03-05-08 15:04pm
laurabeth12
wrote:
I have been sexually active
for about three-four years now (I'm 20, I
started at 17) and no matter what I do, it
still seems to hurt and sometimes
incredibly bad.
I never had the experience of "popping a
cherry", there was never blood or anything
of that nature the first time, or even
times after that of having sex. The first
time I visited the gyno he refused to do a
pap smear because my hymen was intact,
even though I had already had sex at that
point. I assumed that was my problem up
until my next yearly visit, where a pap
smear was preformed, and the doctor made
no mention of my hymen still being
intact.
I just don't know what to do. It's not
that sex doesn't feel good, because
sometimes it does. But other times it's
just painful and I feel horrible because I
can't get into things for my partner
because I'm attempting to avoid the pain.
If anyone has any advice, please let me
know!
Well from reading, it sounds like you do
indeed have an intact thick hymen. The
first doctor may simply have been rather
"backwards" thinking and refused you a pap
smear because he felt he'd be removing
your virginity or something - lmao!! The
second doctor probably didn't mention it
because he or she didn't feel it was an
issue.
The intact hymen is probably what's
causing your pain. It can be dealt with,
but it's going to take another
gynecologist appointment and specifically
telling them you have painful sex and you
believe it is due to your hymen that won't
break.
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collegegirlie
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Posted: 03-05-08 15:31pm
I agree with Eiri.
And I've heard that a man's penis has to
be atleast 5" to break most women's hymen.
Some are much thicker and harder to break
than others.
My first time it HURT. I bled and bled and
cried! I had a very thick hymen. I
actually bled the first 3 or 4 times I had
sex. Then it STILL hurt for a long time
after. But eventually it will go away as
long as the hymen is totally broken.
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Tylanas
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Posted: 03-05-08 15:44pm
You can have the hymen broken by a
gynecologist so it doesn't cause excessive
pain and bleeding, and this is actually
necessary in some cases where normal
sexual intercourse - like the OP's - can't
break the hymen.
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collegegirlie
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Posted: 03-05-08 15:46pm
whats OPs?
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Tylanas
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Posted: 03-05-08 15:49pm
OP= Original Poster. In this case,
laurabeth12.
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janedoe23
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Posted: 03-26-08 04:33am
when you get experience pain during sex
does it feel like something being pushed
or poked? can you tell me more about what
the pain felt like as i have been having
painful sex and dont know y and dont know
if its caused by anything serious
