I'm 18 and I've never had a bf, not
because i've never been asked out but
because I've never been sexually attracted
to anyone, girls or boys. I just never
feel for them in that way, even though I
really really want to. Everyone I know has
had an experience where a single person
makes them feel good, or gives them
butterflies but i feel nothing, i barely
even notice how good looking a person is.
I'm starting to think i may just be a
freak that's going to die alone and
miserable.
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nightangel73
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Posted: 03-09-08 11:24am
I never had a bf when I was your age
neither and that is nothing wrong. You are
extremely young and you have all the time
in the world. Don't worry about it. Don't
frustate yourself about the thought that
you are not sexually attracted to guys
because stress is what make you think that
way. It's not that you are not attracted
to people. You are and you will eventually
find a guy that makes you happy one day.
So just go have fun with your friends and
forget about it. And don't be obessed
about the butterflies because I never had
that with anyone, not even with my husband
and I love him very much.
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EddyMc
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Posted: 06-22-08 15:27pm
You are not a freak, you are totally
normal, it just so happens at this time in
your life you are not attracted to
anyone.
What is probably happening is that you
want the attraction to happen so much that
you are stopping yourself, forget about
wanting it to hapen, just let it happen
naturally, at some point you will find
someone that you are attracted to might
not be tomorrow or even next year, it will
happen.
As for being alone, as long as you have
your family and frineds you will never be
alone.
