Hello, im 18 and I live in Los Angeles,
California. I'm dating a girl right now
who is 26. She is not from here but from
Korea she is a student at the same college
I go to.
We have been dating for a few months now,
and we have had sex two times without
using protection. The way it works is,
usually we are just kissing and things
before and I go in for 1 or 2 minutes
without putting on the condom. I stop
before I get near feeling like finishing,
and I put one on.
I dont use the withdrawal method I have
always finished with a condom stopping
without finishing, in the beginning of the
sexual intercourse. Sometimes, during
foreplay, there is some precum (I guess
thats what it is) coming out from the tip
just a little bit. This probably might
have occured during the beginning times I
didnt have a condom on? This occured after
her last period maybe 1 week or a little
more after it ended. maybe 2-3 weeks ago.
I have since, (because of fear) always
used a condom without even beginning to
start without one. She says she expects
her period to be around the 10th of this
July So im waiting.
Sorry for the long intro, my question is a
couple days ago I called her a couple days
ago, and she didnt sound good. So i asked
her is she sick. Then because of my fear i
asked her had she thrown up. And she asked
me how did i know. I asked her why she
threw up and she said "Sometimes when im
oversensitive i throw up, or when i think
ive eaten too much"
Its like pulling teeth to get information
out of her, And i really am starting to
become frusturated and resentful. She is
shy, and likes to avoid conflicts, but
this isnt something I can live with "Lets
take our time" kind of stuff. THis is a
VERY serious issue, and I am a straight
forward kind of guy.
She said not to worry, Its not what i
Think but i am worrying. I am planning on
waiting to see if she gets her period as
planned, but I am not trying to stress her
because I hear that can cause a late
period..
So basically, she was vomiting a couple
days ago. (Im not sure how much or how
frequently she does this or has done this,
apparently its "usual" according to her)
I left her house this morning, and she
went back to sleep again a few hours after
I left. This also raised my fear because I
hear women pregnant can be fatigued.
Originally before the vomiting I heard
about, I wasnt worried at all pretty much.
Because she told me her last boyfriend
never used one and pulled out all the
time. So I thought, well I dont do
anything like that so this definately
shouldnt occur to me.
She was coughing and stuff last night and
this morning Im not sure if its just
sickness like cold or flu or what i think.
I pray that it is not. Please help me
