I had intercourse with my boyfriend. Dont
ask why he didn't use a condom, it was
kind of unplanned and he didn't want to.
He says he has used it all his life, with
more than 200 women !!!
and not with the girls he loved so there
was no way he agreed to wear it .
anyway, he didnt cum inside me, says he is
clean but i wanna get tested just to be
sure. i had my period so I'm not pregnant
but I'm concerned about other diseases.
Maybe not Aids , he seems and says he is
helathy, but who knows about Hepatite B
and other sort of STD's.
If I go to a lab, what kind of analysis do
I require ? A blood test ???
|
Maddie34
Moderator
Joined: 06 Oct 2007 Posts: 1587 Location: ,
Thanks: 84
Thanked:18
Posted: 07-17-08 14:40pm
Don't put all the blame on the guy-- it's
your job to look after yourself! If you're
not sure if a guy is clean then condoms
are a MUST HAVE for sex. Put your foot
down, if he doesn't wear a condom, then
you don't have sex. Its simple as that and
just saying, "well he didn't want to,"
isn't an excuse for either of you. If you
don't want to get pregnant and you don't
want to get an STD, then look after
yourself and make sure you are
taking proper precautions.
When I was tested, it was a swab that was
taken during be pelvic exam, but sometimes
they do blood tests.
Ask your boyfriend to get tested as well--
it shouldn't be a big deal. Both my ex and
I were tested before we started having
sex.
Yeah...make sure he wears a condom. Don't
let him guilt you into saying it doesn't
feel or good that he never uses it with
women he loves. While it's flattering that
he said that, don't buy it. Condom...or
nothing. Seriously...if a guy who has had
sex with 200 women came near me, he would
need to put a condom on before we even
took our clothes off!!!!
Call the clinic, said you would like to
have a comprehensive test on all STD's
done. They will give you a pelvic exam,
and they SHOULD give you a blood test
(because I'm telling you to get tested for
EVERYTHING).
