My friends are having quite the
discrepancy on a certain topic that I also
don't know what to make of. A couple of
them were hanging out at one of their
houses & drinking & one of them
blacked out, & in her coming &
going consciousness throughout the
evening, she remembers them going to a
party & being taken into a bedroom.
she was a virgin & some guy took
advantage of her, but she knows for a fact
that his penis didn't go all the way in
her & it was so small she could barely
feel it. Having sex with someone while
they're intoxicated is a form of rape
& a lot of people say you're still a
virgin if you're first time was because
you got raped. She may have made the
decision to drink, but she didn't know
they'd be leaving the safety of a guy-free
house later on. Is she still a virgin, or
not?
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Maddie34
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Posted: 06-20-08 01:15am
I would say so.
I think virginity is only lost in
consensual sex, not rape.
I hope your friend is ok. :S
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Marianne0558
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Posted: 06-20-08 09:07am
It depends on her own view point in the
matter. If she doesn't feel it counts,
then she can consider herself a virgin.
She should seek some counseling though,
rape is a terrible ordeal to have to deal
with.
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lele25
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Posted: 06-21-08 00:16am
It really depends on how she looks at it,
but most people would say that once a
penis, regardless as to how small it may
be, penetrates a vagina, that is the end
of virginity. Drunk or not sober as
nothing to do with it!
