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AshleySophia

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still a virgin ?
Posted: 07-18-08 23:36pm

okay so my bf and i really attempted sex today (both of us being virgins). Missionary failed miserably, so we went to cowgirl which was easier. Only thing was my hole was tiny and his penis wasnt. So when he would put it in the pain was so strong and horrible i felt sick after even though he was only in for like a minute. My hymen didnt break ( my bf saw it after and said it was still there) but the pain was horrible. Still hurt for hours after. Im just curious if im still a virgin?
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Posted: 07-18-08 23:59pm

you probably didn't have enough lube..go buy some or do more foreplay before having intercourse...as for "seeing your hymen"...ummm...dont think thats possible so your boyfriend probably had no idea what he was looking at....if the penis entered your vagina you are no longer a virgin
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Posted: 07-19-08 00:00am

You were able to see your hymen and tell whether or not it broke by looking at it?
Did you use lubrication and do a good amount of foreplay?

One of the hardest things with sex early on is learning how to relax your muscles too. If you're tensing before/while he's entering you then it's going to be small and maybe even painful for him to enter all the way.
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AshleySophia

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Posted: 07-19-08 00:04am

he said after we had sex he could see my hymen which i didnt think it was possible. The minute his penis was in my vagina it was hell, would it break w/o me knowing? cause there wasnt any blood. We used lubricated condoms, and there was like some foreplay but we weren't too horny.
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Posted: 07-19-08 00:15am

Yep, most women break their hymen during exercise, tampon, or something else without even knowing. Unless you have a septate hymen (it has a thing string of extra tissue that creates two openings-- you'd know if you had one) then its unlikely he was able to tell just by looking.

But in any case, your hymen has nothing to do with virginity. You had sex, so you're not a virgin-- not like it really matters though, so don't stress about it Smile
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