You know gals I don't think april will be
the month for me. The thruth is that I
want to be preggers but I have a problem
at home that has me under supreme stress
and I just can't take it out of my system
until it is over. Thing is I married last
october and on january 1st my mother in
law moved into my house because she found
a job in our town and so decided to stay
in my house inspite that I told her I did
not wanted her to live in the house
because I just got married. Well she said
she was going to stay for 3 weeks until
she finds a place but the 3 weeks
converted into 3 months and still she is
not going until the end of this month.
It's been the most stressful 3 months of
my life and still going. I have to see
this creature from the moment I wake up to
the time I go to sleep. I still can't
sleep well at night, I have cried a lot
and it's a permanent state of anxiety,
lots of headaches and still going for 3
more weeks. Can you guys imagine this?
Imagine how hard this is for me just to
have sex! She knows exactly when I'm going
to have sex and all! I have NO privacy.
She goes on the weekend to her former home
which is the only time I feel like I got
married and then on sunday when I am a
little begining to recover for not seeing
her in more than 24 hours then here we go
again. The idea of having a child excites
me but then I have to realize now that
this much stress I'm not going to get
pregnant this way. She is natural birth
control pill for me at this point.
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Posted: 04-04-08 21:29pm
You really need to talk to your husband
and make him realize that her living there
makes you extremely stressed out. How
does he feel about the situtuation?
Being that stressed out could have an
effect on you getting pregnant or your
cycles. You want to try to be as stress
free as possible when ttc.
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nightangel73
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Posted: 04-04-08 21:55pm
Well my husband knows well how I feel and
he too wants his mom out but it is not
easy to kick her out. It is a very
difficult situation. Last month it was an
opportunity to make her go but then she
came up with a story that she is got now a
heart condition and shows my husband a ecg
all just to make him not kick her out yet.
So you see it is not easy and me being
affected also affects him more because he
knows I'm not happy and you know I feel
bad because he is studying for his MBA and
he has to drive a long commute to work
everyday that I know it's very rough on
him..
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nightangel73
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Posted: 04-05-08 10:49am
I discussed about this stress situation
with my husband and I have come to a
decision. I'm going to try postpone the
class I'm taking for maybe two months to
have one stress less. While the class
stress is managable if I don't have the
class I can go the gym and do weighlifting
and I can strenghen my body and forget
about ttc.
