Perhaps, who knows.It could backfire because having a child for a few days or a week is VERY different to a pregnancy, labour and raising a child for life so they could look after the child and end up thinking 'oh that wasn't too bad, i could do that' and then *boom* another child is born. Fair enough that tv show is a good idea but it's not like they have to go through 40 weeksof pregnancy, childbirth and then being tired beyond belief but still having that little child dependant on you

I am 13 and have been pregnant. But sadly just suffered a miscarriage. I dont think it is covered in school enough when you need it. I think when your turning 13 and are in Year 8 you need to be aware of pregnancy but we dont cover it in school.

i had tons of friends all through high school and of course senior year when i got pregnant they all said they'd be there for me ... 9 months later i was almost completely friendless ....



Since then i've only met one girl my age with kids and sadly i had to move away with my husband when he got a better job offer ... i know none where i live now

I know quite a few. My friend Larissa, My friend Ashley, My friend Jodi.. I know a few more..

im 13 and pregnant.
im thinking about gettin an abortion but really dont want ot but i cant have a child at my age.

and 3 of my friends are pregnant one my age one 14 and and one that just turned 14.

im 17 and pregnant, i will be 18 when i have my baby... but i kno LOTS of girls who are pregnant, its more commen with hispanics, especially puerto ricans, so i know like 10 girls who are pregnant or have kids and are under 18
i personally know 4 pregnant rite now and i kno a girl who is 15 and has a 2 year old, she got pregnant at 12

Thanks, lagringarican787.

well really it wasnt my fault i got pregnant.
and mabe ur right about that but i dont want to have a kid at my age

ohh and now that i think of it, you can get a rape kit at the hospital without a parent.. a hospital CAN NOT by law refuse to treat a minor even if a parent is not there... i had a threatened misscarriage and i went to the hospital without a parent and they still had to treat me.

How about instead of shaking your finger in her face telling her the different ways she messed up and calling her immature, you try to offer her some constructive advice on things she can do NOW? Does pointing out her mistakes make you feel better? Will it help her at all right now?

This is a support forum. If you're not going to be supportive, don't reply to these posts. Offer her support or click the little x in the corner of the window.

u girls make me laugh!
if this CHILD doesn't have at least the common sense and "knowledge" to go to the hospital after shes been rape then she should not by any means be dating.. she too young and immature and obviously cant handle the consequences.... it is her fault she is pregnant because she could of done something about it and if she didn't have the knowledge aka common sense to go to a hospital then its her fault , she shouldn't of been dating ..then there would of been no boyfriend to rape her... also if she didn't have the knowledge for that she should of told a parent of responsible adult that would of had the knowledge... not sit here and blame everyone else for her mistakes... i highly advise her to stop dating until she can handle and take care of herself and her actions

Again, how is any of that helping her now? Are you interested in helping her at all, or are you just happy up on your high horse looking down at her and pointing out her mistakes?

Yes, she should have gone to the hospital. Yes, she's young and inexperienced. What difference does it make now? She's still pregnant. Do you have anything to add about her doing something now, rather than what she should have done then? Because if not, kindly backclick your way out of this thread.

Mamichula, this is a board for support. Please keep your comments constructive and supportive.

I'm going to lock this topic since it has seriously veered from the original posts and has jumped into criticism for someone who is reaching out. If you disagree with my decision, you can PM the admin.