The truth about cyber affair Posted: 03-02-08 17:01pm
My husband is always on the internet in
chat rooms. He stays on from 8 pm until
1am. Then he gets on again at 6 am before
going to work. I asked him about it and he
said he cant sleep at night. We just got a
webcam and last Saturday he stayed on all
night. We only have sex once a week. I
wanted see how he talks to? What they say?
What Chat rooms he visits?. I was at the
point of filling for Divorce but I badly
wanted to Know for sure.
Then I purchased a few spy software but ,
i guess my husband is indeed not that dumb
because I found him behaving in a very
suspicious manner. His internet habits
started to change a bit.
Then with no success with the spy
softwares,I hired an Internet Detective on
a friend's recommendation.I was little
scared tho ... as i did not wanted to
waste some more money. I already did with
those so called " spy softwares".
Anyway I made a request at their website
and heyyyy they helped me to a great
extend. All the proofs they provided made
me smile )
My hubby was not into adultery or any
other sexual internet activities, which i
was assuming all these days.
Now i can sleep peacefully and also i
would say this with a Broad smile " I am
Happily Married ".
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Mikolas
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Posted: 03-03-08 15:38pm
Sounds like spam no?
Besides, I think ideally it is sad to
resort to PAYING some supposed troupe of
elite spying forces to check your husband,
the one you had wedding vows about being
together forever and trusting one another
and all this other ton of obvious lies one
says just because they were caught up in
the moment.
Marriage doesn't mean much in this day an
age for a lot of people huh =/
I wonder what sort of justification does
this spying company have to intrude
somebody's right to privacy as well,
shouldn't they be taken down?
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ladyT02
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Posted: 03-08-08 20:26pm
even if you are in a relationship everyone
has the right to know if thier being made
a fool of. specially if there is a history
of either person doing something shady.of
course that doesnt mean snooping thru his
phone etc. but if his behaviour did change
and was maybe even affecting their lives
together then i'd say yes. just like if a
guy felt his wife was being unfaithful etc
i'd say yes to that too.
marriage does mean something to some
people these days. no one is perfect,you
just have to chose your battles, and work
things out. my opinion though lol one
thing i wont even bother working out if it
wver happened is being cheated on. but if
its something simple its just about
talking about it and finding a solution
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meblonde01
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Posted: 03-09-08 16:16pm
Talk to him and ask him what he is talking
about or looking at.. Tell him it bothers
you if he tells you he is talking sexually
to another woman. You have a right to
express your feelings.
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