Sexual Health - Women Forum - Threesome with Two Guys

Worrywart, just read each and every post you have written in this thread and you should realize there is no longer anything else to discuss.

You are and will probably never be comfortable with the idea of a threesome, and it's been agreed that you shouldn't give in to his fantasy.

You've been speaking what's been on your heart's "mind" since the very beginning, your decision was settled long before you decided to write this thread. I don't see what is the issue, its a simple no that you've been yearning to say, your bf will have to learn that some fantasies will stay fantasies.

I understand you have a great deal of attachment, since he is your first love, and that is why something like this is affecting you like so, but do you really think he is really that worth keeping if he is going to passively force you to do something that is against everything in every way wrong to you? You began to wonder if he will be happier with somebody "better" just because of this one truthfully insignificant task, but if he really is the type of guy who'd move on just to get this fantasy going, I imagine everybody here can agree that you would deserve better. I hope you aren't considering to give up a lifetime of moral values for just one person. If you really do believe the way you stated, that you'd be committed to one guy and no one else even if you found brad pitt all hot, sweaty and naky in your bed, that is highly respectable quality that I hope I find in a girl some day, don't give that up. If he isn't that sort of guy, then he'll have to suck it up, accept your no if he truly respects you and your body, and move on.

I can't imagine how much he is pressuring you, or how overly serious you are taking this, you should never (ideally) be concerned of your entire relationship with him just for this one dream he has.

P.S. To those who judged men as a whole in the previous post somewhere, I disagree. Something about men not knowing what they want, and that we all want threesomes, etc.... All humans in general (yes women as well), do not know what they want most of the time. it is the consequence of having a sentient mind, where consciousness conflicts with instinctual emotions. Or do you mean to tell me that ladies don't have trouble knowing what is truly right for themselves? As for the threesome theory, I don't believe the majority of guys like the idea of a MMF. I'd kill anybody that touches my would be serious committed relationship girl. As for a FFM, while yes, most guys find that appealing, but it is just a day dream most guys don't take seriously or expect their respective partner to do. I guess the guys who did, figured it couldn't hurt to ask.