i'm not sure if i'm pregnate yet but i'm
extremely anxious about this, okay i had
unprotected sex like so manytimes w my bf
then that week i was ovulating and then
about a week or so after that i started to
bleed and i thought it was just a light
period b/c mine are usually irregular and
i havent been having sex for the last 18
days now and my appetite is small and i
cant eat meat and i am extremely sensitive
to smells but i have no tender breasts,
morning sickness, but my friend says that
she had no symptoms at all while she was
pregnate so.................
i've been against having my own children
b/c of the population of children that
need their own homes but when i take my
test i'm kindof hoping that it's positive,
but i kno that my family would homicide
me!!!!!!!!!!!! and maybe even my bf!
i'm panicking reading all these stories!
what do i do?!?
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aochriss
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Posted: 06-26-08 02:53am
Why did you have unprotected sex so many
times?
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Reptar
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Posted: 06-26-08 08:40am
So you want to be pregnant, but you're
don't want to have kids. I'm confused.
Regardless, you've already had the
unprotected sex and nothing we can say can
change that. If you're pregnant, you are
and then you have to make some decisions
regarding that. Have you taken a pregnancy
test yet? If not, why haven't you? Was
your boyfriend aware you were having
unprotected sex with the intent of getting
pregnant? How does he feel about this?
In closing, you're actually not too young
to have kids, we have girls on this forum
who have made terrific mothers at 15. I
don't know if you could be one of them,
that's something you may have to decide if
you keep at your current pace.
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savsav
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Joined: 26 Jun 2008 Posts: 4
Posted: 06-26-08 12:35pm
well its not that i'm too young it's that
i go to bording school and ur not allowed
to be pregnate there or have children
there.
when we had sex i wasnt even intending on
getting pregnate it was only the thought
of being pregnate that makes me want to go
through with this.
we had unprotected sex, he pulled out and
we used plan b. i was only visiting him
for a week thats why we had it so many
times.
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Ingi
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Posted: 06-26-08 12:50pm
You should use condoms/birth control if
you are not in a position to have a
child.
The word is pregnant. Writing it wrong
makes it sound like you are incredibly
young, in which case you need to take some
serious thought as to how you will care
for this human. How will you give it the
best life possible? This isn't 'fun' this
is someone's LIFE you are thinking would
be 'neat' to go through with.
How do you support yourself? Do you have a
job? Health insurance? How much do babies
cost? How much does rent cost? Are you
aware that in addition to rent, you have
to pay for electricity, phone, water,
sewer, garbage, and that doesn't even
include food or diapers.
Does your boyfriend plan on quitting
school and working full time to support
you and the baby? Do either of you know
how much daycare costs?
Get some birth control.
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AyaMiyaki
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Posted: 06-26-08 12:58pm
Never let a boy anywhere near you without
a condom on his penis. I'm not kidding.
Especially if you're not ready to have a
baby.
Wait until you miss your period and then
take a pregnancy test. Remember this
situation and never let it happen to you
again. Protect yourself.
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Reptar
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Posted: 06-26-08 12:59pm
I don't understand these girls who claim
to have unprotected sex and then change
their stories a million times. Either they
were actually using condoms or it was
unprotected and they just forgot to say
they took planB.
Savsav, there is no excuse for having
unprotected sex many times with your
boyfriend just because you were only
seeing him for a week. If you had access
to planB, you also had access to condoms,
which happen to be cheaper than planB. I
see my boyfriend sometimes 5 days every
couple of months. We even went six months
a couple of times just to spend a week
together. We use condoms every time and
I'm on birth control. There is no reason
you can't do the same. You need to start
taking control of your life, you can't
afford to quit school just because you
didn't want to make the trip to grab some
condoms. Hopefully you aren't pregnant
this time and you can protect yourself for
the next time.
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aochriss
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Posted: 06-26-08 14:26pm
savsav
wrote:
when we had sex i wasnt even intending on
getting pregnate it was only the thought
of being pregnate that makes me want to go
through with this.
I don't understand what this means,
especially the last part.
