Extremely Upset And Needing to Vent

wow,he locked you in so you can't go to your moms?He sounds a bit controlling! How is the person suppose to pick up the puppy if your locked in?I think you need to have a talk with him.how old are you?

why dont you go back and live with your mom?. your b/f is controlling and abusive.

lol no he didnt lock me in he locked himself in the bedroom with the phone

so now i CAN go see my mom?! but hes going to rickys BBQ anyway even though hes a criminal and i told travis he only wants trouble!!!!!

for your sake i hope he doesnt do anything stupid then...his mom really cant touch the account unless her or his name is on it if they do it is illegal let them know that. have fun with your mom...whenever i have one of those days ( and i do alot with the kids i watch and my hubby and my own kids ) IT IS NICE TO SPEND TIME WITH MY MOM. sorry for the caps stupid keyboard#@!#$@#@$%#

I'm sorry you're having a rough time. I remember those days when my husband wanted to hang with the boys. This was before we were married. He would leave friday night at like 8 and sometimes not come back until sunday evening when the simpsons would come on. He acted very childish for a time period. I knew what went on at his friend's house because I went with him some. I wasn't worried about him cheating or anything, but it was very annoying him putting his friends over me. We finally worked through that though. Otherwise, we wouldn't have gotten married. Sometimes it's hard for guys to pull away from their childhood friends. How old is travis by the way?

I totally agree with you on that. Brandon's friend has asked to move in with us before when him and his girlfriend got in to it. I might have allowed him to stay for a little while before I got pregnant (we get along a little better now), but now that I'm pregnant there is no way on this earth he will be allowed to move in with us. He is too much of an alcoholic. He has to have beer with every meal and all night. Sometimes, I don't think he really realizes that he has a problem, but when everytime you see him he has beer or brings over a case every time he comes over there's definitely a problem.

my advice is to go to your mothers if you can. nothing is more important than your baby. Are you in the US or Canada. I do know that if gets himself involved in the wrong thing at the wrong time YOU and your BABY could pay the price if you do not leave. I f you stay with him and he gets messed up some how with the drug thing or and crimal activity you run the risk of child and family services coming in and taking the child or worse they will not even let you leave the hospital unless you leave him. I realize you are sixteen and they will watch your pregancy more closely that thaat of a older women also you will be considered high risk. At the hospital and you will most likely have a social worker from hospital come talk to you about things be verycareful what you say. Their first thing theyare there to protect the baby then help you. I do not mean to scare you but I have worked with inner city children in my city. They got pregant because they wanted to but I have been at the hospital with 3 different girls and because she was living with a "thug" or just helping that "thug" and they had some how found out. 1 lost her baby right there they took it and put it into foster care. She had to go to court and prove she was not iinvloved with the babies fathers activities and that she left him. The other 2 were luckier I was there when they came to take their babies and each one at separate times ended up living with me with their babies for a month or 2. This was before I had my own family. but i got them set up with baby groups, parenting on your stuff, and in a program where they could finish high school and then get the goernment to pay for their college afterwards. I hooope this helps you decide what to do. I will pray for you and your unborn baby and that travis grows up quick and dumps this jerk.

thanks guys :]

is all well today?

yeah its all better

i told travis how i felt and how uncomfortable i was around him and that i feel like that kid is gunna be a problem in or lives if he keeps comming around
he says he understands and just wante to "see for himself" if ricky changed since hes been out of jail

i would not even chance it being around him just so he could "see for himself"

yep well he knows that was the last time. i told him basiaclly if it comes down to it ill leave.
hes scared ricky will get jelous and try to break us up and thats what im scared of too
so...hopefully