I really need your advice girls (and guys,
not to leave anyone out!)...Most of
probably know my story, but if not, here's
a summary...I've been trying to have a
baby for 3 years, had one miscarriage, and
lost two due to an incompetent cervix, the
most recent december 2003. Anyhow, I had
my first regular period on 2/12/04-2/15/04
and did the baby dance every other day
thru the end of the month to be sure there
were always "troops" deployed (sorry, I am
tired and sarcastic) anyhow...I took a
first response test this morning because
it says you can test up to 5 days before
your expected period (i am due for my next
period 3/12/04). The test was negative
and until today I did not get any pms
symptoms, other than very sore breasts
(which I normally have when I am
pregnant.) now I have mild cramps every so
often. I was very bummed at the negative
test and would like to know has anyone
taken a test that early, gotten a
negative, but turned out to be pregnant
anyways or known someone like that? I
took two tests the first time I found out
I was pregnant and one was pos. One was
neg. I know I am rambling, but as I
said, I am confused, bummed, and just want
to know, could I still be pregnant, or
does the waiting game go on...? Thanks!
daniel bruce 11/17/01 @ 23 weeks
jesse bruce 11/13/02 @ 10 weeks
juliana bruce 12/05/03 @ 21 weeks
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bootsie840
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 28 Nov 2003 Posts: 113 Location: pennsylvainaia
Posted: 03-09-04 22:41pm
My sister was really sick and having signs
of being pregnant she bought several test
and they came back neg, after a few days
she went to the er and they did a test
came back neg told her she had a really
bad bladder infection put her on
antibiotics, she still didnt get any
better, finally went to her obgyn they
took a test positive she was one and a
half months preg, dont know why the other
test came back neg, thank god she didnt
take all of the meds, so yes it is
possible to be preg, and get a neg result,
im sorry you lost 3 babies, and I really
hope everything gos well for you, I wish
you luck dont give up or discouraged .
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purple333
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 01 Dec 2003 Posts: 1420 Location: Sydney
Posted: 03-12-04 02:59am
If you're not pregnant I suggest that you
relax, women are less likely to fall
pregnant if they're uptight - being
stressed can also affect the sperm
negatively too, also toomuch sex can
deplete the strength of the sperm!!
If you'er not pregnant go back to basics,
why did you & yours first have sex, to
have a baby or because you found each
other attractive & were turned on
& it was fun, lots of fun, different
positions, places, times, lots of playing
around etc???? Well go back to that &
enjoy yourselves, have a drink (just to
relax not to get drunk) go out for a
romantic dinder, go see a romantic or sexy
movie & go home for a night of fun,
have a night or weekend away for romance
not to fall pregnant just because you love
each other. It's amazing what a little
fun can achieve instead of failure due to
all that hard work making life
dull!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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2ferano
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 23 Dec 2003 Posts: 3717
Posted: 03-12-04 04:56am
Home pregnancy tests are usually wrong....
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KissyBai912
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Aug 2003 Posts: 1762 Location: Venice, Florida
Posted: 03-12-04 05:11am
Hotasfrick home pregnancy tests are not
usually wrong. All though they can be and
it is quite common, but not usually. Her
hormone levels may not be high enough to
detect yet. I say give it a few days,
maybe a week and try testing again. Good
luck to you!
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2ferano
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 23 Dec 2003 Posts: 3717
Posted: 03-12-04 06:49am
Well that is your opinion, but every women
I know who has ever taken one has had
false results.
In this case, I am not saying that the
results are or are not wrong. All I am
saying is don't waste your money on
something that is not going to work
anyway.
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DismalEuphoria
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 20 Dec 2003 Posts: 99 Location: US
First Response Sucks Posted: 03-12-04 10:30am
I took another one yesterday, only this
time I used clear blue easy, which I have
always had good luck with. There was a
very very faint line, but I am not due to
start until tomorrow, so I will wait to
take another test on saturday (i got 3 in
a box!) I am hopeful now, cautious, but
hopeful. I will keep everyone updated.
Thanks for the responses as well!
Joined: 08 Feb 2004 Posts: 132 Location: Lansing, Ks
Posted: 03-13-04 06:47am
U could still get ur period when ur
pregnant u just dont ovulate. My best
friends sister had a completely normal
period her entire pregnancy red blood and
everything. Dont loose hope its not
worth it try again in a few days.
