Yesterday i went to my doctors bc i had a
sheduled ultrasound. I was in high hopes
bc i was going to be able to see my baby
for the first time. My hopes turned into
fears when my doctor was done. he said
the same thing to me that he did in
december when i had my miscarriage.
things werent right. He said that my
babys heart was not beating and that there
was blood around the uterous. he made me
go to the hospital to get another ultra
sound. the nurse said the same thing he
did and told me that i was going to
miscarry. My doctor said that i have less
than 1 percent chance that my baby is
still alive. Why do i keep having
miscarriages. what are all the reasons
for having them bc i was doing everything
that i was supposed to be doing and not
doing everything that i wasnt supposed to
be doing. I just want my child. I dont
want to have to go through another
miscarriage. i have to sit at my house
day and night wondering when i will start
to miscarry.
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young Girl
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Posted: 07-12-07 12:06pm
im sorry hun is there any way
the doctor can ell you why you keep
miscarrying?
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young Girl
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Posted: 07-12-07 12:13pm
im sorry hun is there any way
the doctor can ell you why you keep
miscarrying?
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sillyakchick
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Re: Losing Faith Posted: 07-12-07 12:16pm
singlemommie
wrote:
Yesterday i went to my
doctors bc i had a sheduled ultrasound. I
was in high hopes bc i was going to be
able to see my baby for the first time.
My hopes turned into fears when my doctor
was done. he said the same thing to me
that he did in december when i had my
miscarriage. things werent right. He
said that my babys heart was not beating
and that there was blood around the
uterous. he made me go to the hospital to
get another ultra sound. the nurse said
the same thing he did and told me that i
was going to miscarry. My doctor said
that i have less than 1 percent chance
that my baby is still alive. Why do i
keep having miscarriages. what are all
the reasons for having them bc i was doing
everything that i was supposed to be doing
and not doing everything that i wasnt
supposed to be doing. I just want my
child. I dont want to have to go through
another miscarriage. i have to sit at my
house day and night wondering when i will
start to
miscarry.
I am so very sorry. How awful for you.
As you probably know, miscarriages often
happen when there is something not
developing correctly with the baby. It is
not necessarily a result of something you
did or did not do, especially if you were
taking all the necessary precaustions. It
could be a genetic anomaly, in which case
you and your partner could undergo genetic
testing to see if there is some
incompatability there. There could be a
physiological problem in your baody that
you are not yet aware of, such as an
undiagnosed autoimmune issue. It could be
any multitude of these things. In fact,
many women have miscarried before they
even knew they were pregnant due to these
issues. Again, My thoughts are with you
as you wait for this to happen. I wish
there was something tht could be done to
prevent this. Perhaps your care provider
has some insight for you? Can they
schedule a procedure so that you do not
have to wait this out?
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sandyallen
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Joined: 02 Feb 2004 Posts: 4580
Posted: 07-12-07 12:31pm
I am so sorry! I too have been there, I
know it isn't easy, know that we are here
for you! I pretty much agree with
sillyakchick. Talk to your dr and know
that you might even want to get a second
opinion.
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KatieFlower
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Joined: 15 Feb 2006 Posts: 407 Location: Massachusetts, U>S>A
Posted: 07-12-07 13:20pm
I am sorry to hear that. Hopefully your
doctor will be able to give you some kind
of answer as to why that keeps happening.
I hope things turn out better the next
time around and I will pray for you
I am so sorry this keeps happening to you.
I have had a total of eight miscarriages
and they do not know why. they have told
me that when a baby does this there is
usually something wrong with it so it will
abort itself. Not your fault at all please
know that. I used to blame myself. I do
have one idea though are you RH- or RH+ if
you are negative and baby is positive then
your body will think it has to get rid of
the baby it will kind of treat it like it
is an infection to get rid of. Is your doc
a OBGYN or just a gp. If not a OBGYN ask
your doctor to refer you to one and one
that specializes in fertility. Again I am
so sorry. My heart goes out to you and
your partner all though it is much worse
for you. Try not to get mad if he seems
not to care he did not get the same
attachment to the baby as you did.
taykare
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singlemommie
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Joined: 15 Jun 2007 Posts: 18 Location: greenwood
Posted: 07-12-07 16:47pm
I have to go back to my doctors tommorrow
and i will ask him about an obgyn. My
fiance is really upset about the baby too.
he still is praying and hoping that it
was all an mistake and the baby is still
alive
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RachelD
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Joined: 24 Sep 2007 Posts: 6 Location: Hawaii, US
Don't Lose Faith Posted: 09-28-07 20:34pm
I'm so sorry for you however remember that
God has a plan for all of this crapy as it
is sometimes. When I miscarried I was
devastated and my husband said to me God
ment for it to happen because he was
saving me from something worse for
instance maybe my child was developing
improperly and would not come out healthy.
And just think with pregnancy, yes there
are things you should and shouldn;t do but
really you have no control and you just
need to take things one day at a time. I
changed my cat litter and miscarried but
my friend drank a bottle of whisky and the
baby was fine, so who knows
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hopinginNJ
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Jul 2007 Posts: 12
Posted: 10-02-07 15:11pm
Had the same exact thing happen in my 1st
miscarriage (2nd one was chemical). I'm
so sorry for your loss. I really do
understand how difficult it is. All the
best to you.
is there any way
the doctor can ell you why you keep
miscarrying?
